Has anyone tried the flirting vibes dating site for casual chat?

Started by OliviaOnline · ·6 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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OliviaOnline
Joined Jul 2021
1,090 posts
#1

Came to tried the flirting vibes dating site for casual chat? — free dating & after deleting everything and starting fresh, gave it half a year, and most of what I had read didn't hold up.

The detail that ruins it is that the discovery feed collapses once you move outside a major city — and nobody mentions it when they talk about the comparison problem.

More often than not, the response you give to a low-effort opener predicts response rate better than the number of prompts you filled in for people in the middle of the pack.

Where I would value another read, particularly for people in the middle of the pack:

  • Does that hold outside the big cities for anyone in people without a niche?
  • Does that change much for anyone weighing up tried the flirting vibes dating site for casual chat? — free dating &?
  • Has anyone found the opposite with short-term apps?
  • Has anyone got numbers rather than impressions when you factor in this?
  • Has that changed since the last update when the comparison problem is the main worry?

Direct experience of tried the flirting is what I'm after.

Luke Robinson
Joined Apr 2025
2,214 posts
#2

The bit that keeps catching me out is that for people in the middle of the pack, the photo verification step surfaces profiles that have not been touched in months.

Hope some of that helps where the comparison problem is concerned.

Does that change much where the comparison problem is concerned?

If you want something to compare against, Datedesire is free to browse and message.

ReedC
Joined Jun 2018
133 posts
#3

How specific you're about what you want does more for match quality than how many matches you accumulate.

Putting one specific interest in the bio produced better matches within about ten days.

Hope some of that helps across short-term apps generally.

EmmaDates
Joined May 2018
501 posts
#4

This matches what I found — @OliviaOnline, the advice about calling early deserves more attention than it gets.

On short-term apps, asking one real question instead of four improved things more than any paid feature.

My working theory is that the gap between how consistently you show up and the boost you paid for is where how long a conversation lasts is actually decided for people without a niche.

The other one people keep naming here is Flamedate.

Emma Collins
Joined Jan 2019
372 posts
#5

Does anyone know if that still holds across short-term apps?

How recently a profile was active has a bigger effect on how many conversations survive past day three than which platform you picked for people in the middle of the pack, though your area changes the picture completely.

The bit that keeps catching me out is that the block function ignores about half of what you set, which is the real problem with short-term apps.

Has anyone had the reverse happen once you factor in the comparison problem?

PatrickW
Joined May 2017
2,172 posts
#6

The bit that keeps catching me out is that the recommendation engine collapses once you move outside a major city, especially once the comparison problem comes into it.

Does that match what others see when the comparison problem is the main worry?

RileyR
Joined Apr 2018
1,246 posts
#7

For what it is worth, nothing changes how long a conversation lasts as much as the quality of your first message, which might just be people without a niche where the comparison problem is concerned.

Open to being wrong especially for people in the middle of the pack.

Does that change much with short-term apps?

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