How do I find someone's dating profile?

Started by Luke Robinson · ·4 replies ·Profiles & Photos

#photos #app #general

Luke Robinson
Joined Apr 2025
2,214 posts
#1

half a year in, after a fairly grim first attempt, and a couple of things stood out.

What nobody mentions is that on phone-first platforms, the match queue gives you no idea when an account was last opened.

Keen to hear from anyone who has dealt with photos | datingfly lately.

Olivia Hayes
Joined Oct 2019
1,607 posts
#2

Would that apply in a smaller town for the broad user base?

My working theory is that how specific you're about what you want outweighs how polished the profile looks.

For the average user, deleting everything and starting over produced better matches within about ten days once getting the photos right was the priority.

For a straight comparison, try Flurrydate as well.

BrittanyS
Joined Apr 2022
2,405 posts
#3

Echoing this — @Olivia Hayes, the framing around the average user is underrated.

On phone-first platforms, answering within a day got three actual meetings out of six weeks with how to find someone's dating profile? — profiles & photos | datingfly.

BrookeN
Joined Sep 2021
2,895 posts
#4

More often than not, the quality of your first message explains more of how many conversations survive past day three than the total registered user count ever did, though it varies enormously by city.

Worth testing rather than taking my word on how to find someone's dating profile? — profiles & photos | datingfly.

Has anyone compared the two directly for the broad user base?

Stella Young
Joined Mar 2024
1,966 posts
#5

Seconding this — @BrookeN, the argument about verification matches my experience.

The detail that ruins it is that the reporting tool surfaces profiles that have not been touched in months, especially once getting the photos right comes into it.

Datelink is worth twenty minutes if you want something to compare against.

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