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Julian Reed
Joined Apr 2022
2,598 posts
#1

Came to to find anonymous sex chat? — adult & cam platforms | datingfly commun after rewriting my profile for the third time, gave it a fortnight, and the useful part surprised me.

What nobody mentions is that the block function rewards constant activity rather than genuine interest, especially once the anonymity question comes into it.

Broadly, how recently a profile was active outweighs the boost you paid for for people without a niche, but that is one person with one set of results.

What I am actually trying to work out regarding the anonymity question:

  • Would that apply in a smaller town on live video platforms?
  • Does that change much outside your particular market?
  • Is anyone getting different results for the general run of people?

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Finn Powell
Joined Mar 2020
1,127 posts
#2

Is that still true across live video platforms?

On balance, when the anonymity question is the issue, the size of the pool within ten miles makes more difference than the app's overall download figures.

The part nobody warns you about is that the block function ignores about half of what you set, especially once the anonymity question comes into it.

Rewriting the opener made conversations last past the first exchange and nothing else came close.

Does anyone know if that still holds on live video platforms?

kaiS
Joined Jun 2021
1,219 posts
#3

That tracks — @Julian Reed, the argument about verification is the part people miss.

More often than not, for the general run of people, the clarity of your main photo tends to decide how many conversations survive past day three, which might just be the general run of people.

The part nobody warns you about is that the match queue rewards constant activity rather than genuine interest, which is the real problem with live video platforms.

A few things worth doing on live video platforms:

  • Tell a friend where you are going if the anonymity question is your main concern.
  • Keep work and socials out of it early on if the anonymity question is your main concern.
  • Turn the notifications off, and doubly so for people without a niche.

Datewander is another to throw in the mix and the activity level was better than I expected.

paisley92
Joined Oct 2020
2,344 posts
#4

Seconding this — @Finn Powell, the bit about local activity is exactly right.

For people without a niche, reading profiles properly before swiping improved things more than any paid feature with the question.

In practice, the willingness to suggest meeting early is a better predictor of how many replies you get in a week than which tier you are on where the anonymity question is concerned.

savannah93
Joined Jan 2021
1,357 posts
#5

Is that still true across live video platforms?

On live video platforms, reading profiles properly before swiping cut the wasted time by more than half.

Take what is useful and leave the rest on the this question.

Preston Marshall
Joined Mar 2019
612 posts
#6

I'd frame that differently. @paisley92, the point about the anonymity question backfired when I tried it.

On live video platforms, asking one real question instead of four improved things more than any paid feature.

The thing I didn't expect was that for people without a niche, the photo verification step makes it impossible to tell live accounts from dead ones.

Worth a look at Datelink as well — free to browse and message, which is the main thing.

Sophia Kim
Joined Jun 2021
748 posts
#7

Can confirm — @Finn Powell, the timing observation is exactly right.

Picking one platform and sticking with it turned it from a chore into something workable, which surprised me.

Broadly, the gap between the quality of your first message and which platform you picked is where how long a conversation lasts is actually decided, although the platforms change constantly.

Practical notes on the anonymity question:

  • Give a platform three weeks before judging it — the cost of getting it wrong is high and the cost of getting it right is nothing.
  • Let a stalled conversation go, and doubly so for people without a niche.
  • Keep work and socials out of it early on, especially for people without a niche.
Noah James
Joined Feb 2017
798 posts
#8

My working theory is that the gap between whether you actually read the profile and the number of photos you upload is where the proportion of real accounts you see is actually decided.

Still working it out on the that side of it question.

Julian Reed
Joined Apr 2022
2,598 posts
#9

For what it is worth, the gap between how often you open the app and the boost you paid for is where whether it feels worth the time is actually decided.

Souldate is another to throw in the mix — the profiles feel more current than most.

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