Is badoo online dating mostly for hookups?

Started by Stella Young · ·6 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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Stella Young
Joined Mar 2024
1,966 posts
#1

since the spring in, out of curiosity more than anything, and I still do not have a clean answer.

The thing I didn't expect was that on casual-first platforms, the reporting tool quietly stops working after the first week.

For what it is worth, the honesty of the bio is a better predictor of whether anything reaches a first meeting than the app's overall download figures for most people.

For most of us, cutting the match list right down made conversations last past the first exchange.

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KaitlynB
Joined Dec 2020
2,267 posts
#2

Seconding this — @Stella Young, the profile-quality point is the whole thing really.

My working theory is that when deciding where to spend the effort is the issue, how recently a profile was active outweighs the boost you paid for, but that is one person with one set of results on casual-first platforms.

Curious what others found where deciding where to spend the effort is concerned.

Flurrydate came up in a similar thread and was worth the time.

AubreyA
Joined Jun 2019
2,226 posts
#3

Broadly, on casual-first platforms, the quality of your first message outweighs the app's star rating where deciding where to spend the effort is concerned.

My rules for deciding where to spend the effort, such as they are:

  • Keep work and socials out of it early on if deciding where to spend the effort is your main concern.
  • Give a platform three weeks before judging it, particularly on casual-first platforms.
  • Pick your own venue for a first meeting if deciding where to spend the effort is your main concern.
  • Check when the account was last active, and doubly so for most of us.
CrystalB
Joined May 2018
3,277 posts
#4

This matches what I found — @AubreyA, the bit about local activity is the part people miss.

On balance, the gap between how narrow your filters are and the number of photos you upload is where how satisfied you're after a month is actually decided for most people.

Deleting everything and starting over was the only change that showed up in the numbers.

Try Datedesire alongside whatever else you are testing if you are building a shortlist.

Hope some of that helps given how fast casual-first platforms change.

Is there a way to check before signing up given deciding where to spend the effort?

Mateo Harris
Joined Jan 2018
1,995 posts
#5

Broadly agreed — @Stella Young, the argument about verification is exactly right.

The bit that keeps catching me out is that the recommendation engine treats a fifty-mile radius as a suggestion.

EvanD
Joined Jul 2025
1,080 posts
#6

Is that a regional thing where deciding where to spend the effort is concerned?

The thing I didn't expect was that the block function seems designed to keep you swiping rather than talking.

What actually held up on badoo online dating:

  • Read the profile before you send anything, which matters most on casual-first platforms.
  • Put something concrete in the opener, which matters most on casual-first platforms.
  • Screenshot anything odd before blocking if deciding where to spend the effort is your main concern.
  • Keep work and socials out of it early on if deciding where to spend the effort is your main concern.
  • Give a platform three weeks before judging it, and doubly so for most of us.

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DakotaN
Joined Jul 2018
1,680 posts
#7

Has anyone compared the two directly when deciding where to spend the effort is the main worry?

The one change that worked was reading profiles properly before swiping — it roughly doubled the reply rate.

Does anyone know if that still holds when deciding where to spend the effort is the main worry?

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