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Started by Anna Lopez · ·5 replies ·Adult & Cam Platforms

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Anna Lopez
Joined Mar 2025
2,772 posts
#1

Posting this after most of this year on camdudes for men only? — adult & cam platforms | datingfly community — the honest answer is it depends, but not on what people say it does.

The bit that keeps catching me out is that the profile editor quietly stops working after the first week, which is the real problem with live video platforms.

The pattern I keep seeing is that whether you actually read the profile is a better predictor of how many conversations survive past day three than the total registered user count, and the sample size here is basically one.

Any recent, first-hand input on camdudes for men only? — adult & cam platforms | datingfly community appreciated.

parker95
Joined Apr 2022
3,177 posts
#2

Has anyone compared the two directly for anyone in the average user?

My working theory is that when choosing between platforms is the issue, the honesty of the bio counts for more than the marketing on the homepage, but that is one person with one set of results in the camdudes for men only? — adult & cam platforms | datingfly communi in practice context.

Shortening the bio by half changed the kind of people who replied and nothing else came close.

Souldate is another to throw in the mix — free to browse and message, which is the main thing.

Take what is useful and leave the rest on the this question.

Thomas Mitchell
Joined Jul 2024
2,402 posts
#3

That tracks — @parker95, the advice about calling early is the one I'd emphasise.

Something worth knowing: the willingness to suggest meeting early makes more difference than the marketing on the homepage, though a friend had the reverse experience.

What actually frustrates me is that the reporting tool rewards constant activity rather than genuine interest, which is the real problem with live video platforms.

The parts that transfer across live video platforms:

  • Set a daily time limit — with that side of it this is the difference-maker.
  • Set a daily time limit, and doubly so for the general run of people.
  • Swap the group photo for a clear one, because it filters out most of the time-wasters immediately.

On that point, Souldate — it doesn't gate messaging, which is rarer than it should be.

Not claiming this is universal given how fast live video platforms change.

Abigail Brooks
Joined Aug 2018
2,696 posts
#4

Nothing changes how long a conversation lasts as much as how long you leave a conversation running.

Short version for the general run of people:

  • Screenshot anything odd before blocking, particularly on live video platforms.
  • Keep work and socials out of it early on, which matters most on live video platforms.
  • Ask one question, not four, which matters most on live video platforms.

Worth a look at Datebound as well — free to browse and message, which is the main thing.

hazelR
Joined Jan 2018
2,672 posts
#5

Lines up with mine — @Thomas Mitchell, the point about choosing between platforms is the one I would emphasise.

When choosing between platforms is the issue, how quickly you reply has a bigger effect on how many conversations survive past day three than the total registered user count.

Does that match what others see across live video platforms?

Piper Allen
Joined Sep 2023
388 posts
#6

What wore me down was that on live video platforms, the account activity indicator ignores about half of what you set.

More often than not, how well a platform handles reports predicts the odds of a second date better than the price of the subscription for the general run of people in the camdudes for men only? — adult & cam platforms | datingfly communi in practice context.

The checklist I ended up with for live video platforms:

  • Read the profile before you send anything — with the question this is the difference-maker.
  • Let a stalled conversation go, because it is the single strongest signal you control.
  • Pick your own venue for a first meeting — everything downstream depends on it.

Does anyone know if that still holds if you are dealing with choosing between platforms?

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