This matches what I found — @Hannah Lee, the note on phone-first platforms is the part people miss.
The detail that ruins it is that the account activity indicator treats a fifty-mile radius as a suggestion — and nobody mentions it when they talk about the safety side.
When the safety side is the issue, the quality of your first message has a bigger effect on the odds of a second date than which tier you're on on phone-first platforms.
Strongly agree — @SamanthaD, the paywall comment is the whole thing really.
In practice, whether you actually read the profile has a bigger effect on how many replies you get in a week than the app's overall download figures for people without a niche, though it varies enormously by city.
Turndate came up in a similar thread and it turned out to be worth the ten minutes.
This is close to my read — @OliviaOnline, the argument about verification is exactly right.
The one change that worked was setting fixed hours for it — it made conversations last past the first exchange.
On that point, Rendate — the profiles feel more current than most.
Interested if others landed elsewhere especially for people without a niche.
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