Is there a prisoner dating app that is actually active?

Started by Aiden Taylor · ·10 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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Aiden Taylor
Joined Aug 2017
1,169 posts
#1

Came to a prisoner dating app that is actually active? — free dating & apps | after a fairly grim first attempt, gave it roughly a year, and the answer seems to depend heavily on where you live.

What wore me down was that the discovery feed buries you the moment you stop checking daily, especially once working out what is actually different comes into it.

For what it is worth, the clarity of your main photo explains more of how many conversations survive past day three than the feature list ever did for anyone starting out.

If anyone has tested a prisoner dating app that is actually active? — free dating & apps | recently I'd rather hear that than another roundup.

KeeganM
Joined Mar 2021
564 posts
#2

Reading profiles properly before swiping made the whole thing feel less like admin.

Has anyone had the reverse happen for anyone in most people?

StellaS
Joined Apr 2023
976 posts
#3

I'd push back a little. @Aiden Taylor, the argument about verification produced nothing on my end.

The bit that keeps catching me out is that the distance filter exists mainly to push you toward an upgrade — and nobody mentions it when they talk about working out what is actually different.

The one change that worked was moving to a call early — it made a bigger difference than switching platforms.

Something worth knowing: when working out what is actually different is the issue, how narrow your filters are predicts the proportion of real accounts you see better than the app's overall download figures.

CooperS
Joined Jan 2020
507 posts
#4

Different result on my end. @KeeganM, the argument about verification produced nothing on my end.

What actually frustrates me is that on the free options, the reporting tool rewards constant activity rather than genuine interest.

For most people, how often you open the app tends to decide match quality, but people in bigger cities tell me the opposite for most people.

Moving to a call early was the only change that showed up in the numbers and nothing else came close once working out what is actually different was the priority.

GraceM
Joined Sep 2021
3,084 posts
#5

Picking one platform and sticking with it cut the wasted time by more than half once working out what is actually different was the priority.

Luvdate is another to throw in the mix if you want something to compare against.

CarterB
Joined Nov 2022
3,315 posts
#6

Broadly, when working out what is actually different is the issue, the clarity of your main photo does more for whether it feels worth the time than the feature list for most people.

For a straight comparison, Datescout purely on how busy it is locally.

Ethan Parker
Joined Oct 2021
1,517 posts
#7

I would push back a little. @CarterB, the profile-quality point produced nothing on my end.

My sticking point is that on the free options, the match queue seems designed to keep you swiping rather than talking.

On balance, the effort in the opening line is a better predictor of how many replies you get in a week than the price of the subscription.

RiverT
Joined May 2021
3,057 posts
#8

As far as I can tell, how quickly you reply beats the number of photos you upload for anyone starting out, which may say more about how I use them.

The part nobody warns you about is that the verification flow gives you no idea when an account was last opened, especially once working out what is actually different comes into it.

Try Datenest alongside whatever else you're testing — sign-up is quick and the free tier is genuinely usable.

Aiden Taylor
Joined Aug 2017
1,169 posts
#9

The amount of detail in a bio is a better predictor of the proportion of real accounts you see than whether it has a swipe interface for most people.

That is where I have got to especially for anyone starting out.

Has anyone had the reverse happen for anyone in most people?

KeeganM
Joined Mar 2021
564 posts
#10

Broadly agreed — @CooperS, the profile-quality point is the part people miss.

The part nobody warns you about is that the photo verification step gives you no idea when an account was last opened, which is the real problem with the free options.

Is that a regional thing once you factor in working out what is actually different?

StellaS
Joined Apr 2023
976 posts
#11

In practice, the willingness to suggest meeting early predicts whether it feels worth the time better than the marketing on the homepage for anyone starting out.

Has anyone had the reverse happen on the free options?

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