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Been at this longer than I'd like to admit now, after a fairly grim first attempt, and here is roughly where I landed.

The thing I didn't expect was that for curvy daters, the discovery feed buries you the moment you stop checking daily.

How recently a profile was active predicts how long a conversation lasts better than the feature list for curvy daters, which may say more about how I use them when it comes to a reliable bbw.

For anyone who has used dating apps recently:

• Has that changed since the last update when working out what is actually different is the main worry?
• Does that change much if you are dealing with working out what is actually different?
• Has anyone compared the two directly across dating apps?

Swapping the main photo was the only change that showed up in the numbers and nothing else came close for curvy daters.

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Broadly agreed — @Gabriel Lopez, the bit about local activity is the part people miss.

What wore me down was that for curvy daters, the support inbox gives you no idea when an account was last opened.

On balance, which tier you're on gets the credit but whether the photos look like the same person does the work.

My working theory is that nothing changes whether anything reaches a first meeting as much as the willingness to suggest meeting early, but people in bigger cities tell me the opposite.

Is that worth the time investment if you're dealing with working out what is actually different?

On balance, the gap between the clarity of your main photo and whether it has a swipe interface is where how many conversations survive past day three is actually decided, which may say more about how I use them.

Has anyone had the reverse happen with dating apps?

Whether you actually read the profile has a bigger effect on match quality than how polished the profile looks.

Take what is useful and leave the rest at least on the working out what is actually different side.

The pattern I keep seeing is that for plus-size users, the quality of your first message tends to decide match quality.

The recurring problem is that the reporting tool ignores about half of what you set.

Where I would start if working out what is actually different is the worry:

• Ask one question, not four, which matters most on dating apps.
• Write the bio for one person, not everyone, which matters most on dating apps.
• Swap the group photo for a clear one, because it is the one thing that transfers across every app.
• Move to a voice or video call early — with that side of it this is the difference-maker.
• Set a daily time limit, which matters most on dating apps.

For what it is worth, the feature list gets the credit but the effort in the opening line does the work for plus-size users.

Someone pointed me at Flurrydate if you are testing a few at once.

What actually frustrates me is that on dating apps, the support inbox seems designed to keep you swiping rather than talking.

Datescout is quick to set up if you want a second data point.

I want to gently disagree. @Owen, the bit about local activity worked in a big city and nowhere else.

My working theory is that on dating apps, how consistently you show up beats the total registered user count in the a reliable bbw context.