What are jerking off websites?

Started by robert95 · ·6 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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robert95
Joined Aug 2023
2,987 posts
#1

Been at this on and off for a year now, out of curiosity more than anything, and most of what I had read did not hold up.

What nobody mentions is that on free-tier services, the account activity indicator produces a template reply and closes the ticket.

More often than not, whether you actually read the profile explains more of how satisfied you're after a month than the total registered user count ever did.

The questions I keep coming back to about jerking off websites? — free dating & apps | datingfly community specifically:

  • Is that worth the time investment when choosing between platforms is the main worry?
  • Has anyone got numbers rather than impressions where choosing between platforms is concerned?
  • Is that worth the time investment with free-tier services?
  • Does that hold outside the big cities for anyone weighing up that side of it?
  • Does that change much for people in the middle of the pack?

If anyone has tested jerking off websites? — free dating & apps | datingfly community recently I'd rather hear that than another roundup.

Nathan Evans
Joined Jul 2019
2,121 posts
#2

Can confirm — @robert95, the paywall comment held up in my case too.

Something worth knowing: when choosing between platforms is the issue, the effort in the opening line outweighs the app's overall download figures, though it varies enormously by city when it comes to jerking off websites? — free dating & apps | datingfly community.

Turndate is another to throw in the mix — free to browse and message, which is the main thing.

Piper
Joined Jan 2019
2,875 posts
#3

The one change that worked was moving to a call early — it roughly doubled the reply rate for people in the middle of the pack.

If you take three things from this about | datingfly community:

  • Let a stalled conversation go, and doubly so for most people.
  • Never move money under any framing, which matters most on free-tier services.
  • Turn the notifications off — it is the difference between a reply and silence.
  • Never move money under any framing, particularly on free-tier services.
  • Write the bio for one person, not everyone, particularly on free-tier services.
julianK
Joined Feb 2018
1,112 posts
#4

The one change that worked was shortening the bio by half — it turned it from a chore into something workable for people in the middle of the pack.

What nobody mentions is that the discovery feed treats a fifty-mile radius as a suggestion, which is the real problem with free-tier services.

Eleanor
Joined Mar 2021
1,807 posts
#5

Opposite for me, oddly. @Nathan Evans, the note on free-tier services may have been better luck than most get.

The bit that keeps catching me out is that for most people, the free tier rewards constant activity rather than genuine interest.

The other one people keep naming here is Datescout.

Avery Anderson
Joined Jan 2025
1,732 posts
#6

Does that hold outside the big cities on free-tier services?

The part nobody warns you about is that the notification system turns into a shop window the moment someone matches, especially once choosing between platforms comes into it.

In practice, nothing changes response rate as much as the willingness to suggest meeting early.

Boiled down, for anyone weighing up this jerking off websites? — free dating & apps | datingfly community problem:

  • Put something concrete in the opener — with the question this is the difference-maker.
  • Give a platform three weeks before judging it, especially for most people.
  • Keep the first meeting short and public if choosing between platforms is your main concern.
Claire Carter
Joined Nov 2018
2,820 posts
#7

This matches what I found — @Avery Anderson, the point about choosing between platforms matches my experience.

The detail that ruins it is that for most people, the verification flow shows the same faces on a loop.

How long you leave a conversation running is a better predictor of how long a conversation lasts than how many matches you accumulate.

What actually held up on jerking off websites? — free dating & apps | datingfly community in practice:

  • Never move money under any framing, and doubly so for most people.
  • Put something concrete in the opener — the platforms will not do it for you.
  • Give a platform three weeks before judging it, and doubly so for most people.
  • Say what you want in the first two lines, because it saves you the conversation that was never going anywhere.
  • Read the profile before you send anything, and doubly so for most people.

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