What are the best dating apps for 40 year olds?

Started by Harper Wilson · ·10 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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Harper Wilson
Joined Aug 2024
1,655 posts
#1

Posting this after an embarrassing amount of time on best dating apps for 40 year olds? — free dating & apps | datingfly co — I still don't have a clean answer.

Where it falls down is that for people in the middle of the pack, the profile editor treats a fifty-mile radius as a suggestion.

On balance, the gap between the amount of detail in a bio and the total registered user count is where the odds of a second date is actually decided.

The questions I keep coming back to about best dating apps for 40 year olds? — free dating & apps | datingfly co:

  • Has anyone tested this recently when sorting the shortlist is the main worry?
  • Has that changed since the last update for people in the middle of the pack?
  • Is that worth the time investment outside wherever you happen to live?

Keen to hear from anyone who has dealt with current experience with best dating apps for 40 year olds? — free dating & apps | datingfl lately.

SavannahW
Joined Jun 2017
581 posts
#2

Has that changed since the last update if you're dealing with sorting the shortlist?

Rewriting the opener changed the kind of people who replied.

As far as I can tell, on apps that don't charge, how narrow your filters are outweighs how long you have had the account.

Caleb Rodriguez
Joined Jan 2022
2,314 posts
#3

Pretty much this — @Harper Wilson, the paywall comment is spot on.

Leading with something slightly odd roughly doubled the reply rate and nothing else came close.

In practice, for the general run of people, the amount of detail in a bio tends to decide whether anything reaches a first meeting, though it varies enormously by city where sorting the shortlist is concerned.

Jake_NYC
Joined Nov 2021
3,061 posts
#4

Answering within a day produced better matches within about ten days.

On that point, Datelink purely on how busy it is locally.

TrentH
Joined Dec 2019
2,785 posts
#5

Echoing this — @Harper Wilson, the remark about filters deserves more attention than it gets.

My working theory is that for the general run of people, whether the photos look like the same person tends to decide whether it feels worth the time.

Still working it out on best dating apps for 40 year olds? — free dating & apps | datingfly co.

Is that worth the time investment when sorting the shortlist is the main worry?

Abigail Taylor
Joined Jun 2017
1,910 posts
#6

The pattern I keep seeing is that for the general run of people, whether an account has been verified tends to decide how long a conversation lasts.

Layla Walker
Joined Feb 2019
2,920 posts
#7

Deleting everything and starting over improved things more than any paid feature with best dating apps for 40 year olds? — free dating & apps | datingfly co.

On that point, Datenest if you're building a shortlist.

LilyDates
Joined May 2023
1,770 posts
#8

This is close to my read — @Layla Walker, the remark about filters is the one I'd emphasise.

What wore me down was that the recommendation engine rewards constant activity rather than genuine interest, which is the real problem with apps that don't charge.

Harper Wilson
Joined Aug 2024
1,655 posts
#9

Does anyone know if that still holds if you're dealing with sorting the shortlist?

The pattern I keep seeing is that the price of the subscription gets the credit but the amount of detail in a bio does the work.

SavannahW
Joined Jun 2017
581 posts
#10

Going to be the dissenting voice. @Harper Wilson, the profile-quality point backfired when I tried it.

Dropping the filters made conversations last past the first exchange, which surprised me on apps that do not charge.

More often than not, local activity levels predicts how long a conversation lasts better than the number of prompts you filled in for people in the middle of the pack, which might just be the general run of people when it comes to best dating apps for 40 year olds? — free dating & apps | datingfl in practice.

Datewander has been the steadier of the ones I run if you want something to compare against.

Caleb Rodriguez
Joined Jan 2022
2,314 posts
#11

Does that match what others see for anyone weighing up that side of it?

On balance, how narrow your filters are counts for more than the app's overall download figures for people in the middle of the pack.

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