What are the best dating apps for 50 year olds?

Started by WyattB · ·7 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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WyattB
Joined Dec 2024
3,087 posts
#1

longer than I'd like to admit in, having given up on it once already, and most of what I had read didn't hold up.

The detail that ruins it is that for anyone starting out, the messaging limit resets every time the app updates.

The parts of best dating apps for 50 year olds? — free dating & apps | datingfl in practice I cannot resolve on my own:

  • Has anyone got numbers rather than impressions once you factor in working out what is actually different?
  • Has anyone had the reverse happen with no-payment platforms?
  • Does that hold outside the big cities once you factor in working out what is actually different?
  • Has anyone found the opposite when you factor in this?

Any recent, first-hand input on best dating apps for 50 year olds? — free dating & apps | datingfly co appreciated.

Avery Jackson
Joined Feb 2022
3,005 posts
#2

For what it is worth, the app's overall download figures gets the credit but the amount of detail in a bio does the work.

Practical notes on working out what is actually different:

  • Write the bio for one person, not everyone, particularly on no-payment platforms.
  • Keep the first meeting short and public, which matters most on no-payment platforms.
  • Never move money under any framing, especially for anyone starting out.
  • Give a platform three weeks before judging it, particularly on no-payment platforms.
  • Let a stalled conversation go if working out what is actually different is your main concern.

Your results may differ where working out what is actually different is concerned.

Is that still true for anyone weighing up best dating apps?

MadisonLoves
Joined Jul 2017
3,023 posts
#3

The recurring problem is that the support inbox rewards constant activity rather than genuine interest, which is the real problem with no-payment platforms.

Things I wish someone had said about best dating apps for 50 year olds? — free dating & apps | datingfl specifically:

  • Set a daily time limit, and doubly so for anyone starting out.
  • Ask one question, not four, particularly on no-payment platforms.
  • Give a platform three weeks before judging it, particularly on no-payment platforms.
  • Let a stalled conversation go, because it filters out most of the time-wasters immediately.

Happy to be argued with where working out what is actually different is concerned.

AvaMeetups
Joined Sep 2021
385 posts
#4

Reading profiles properly before swiping made conversations last past the first exchange and nothing else came close.

Broadly, whether an account has been verified has a bigger effect on how satisfied you're after a month than the price of the subscription for anyone starting out when it comes to best dating apps for 50 year olds? — free dating & apps | datingfly co.

Worth running Datewander in parallel for a couple of weeks.

Wyatt Garcia
Joined Jan 2024
329 posts
#5

Reading profiles properly before swiping made conversations last past the first exchange and nothing else came close once working out what is actually different was the priority.

For what it is worth, how recently a profile was active explains more of how many replies you get in a week than how many matches you accumulate ever did, though a friend had the reverse experience.

What survived contact with reality on | datingfly co:

  • Say what you want in the first two lines, which matters most on no-payment platforms.
  • Swap the group photo for a clear one — with | datingfly co this is the difference-maker.
  • Stop apologising for wanting something specific if working out what is actually different is your main concern.
  • Screenshot anything odd before blocking, because the platforms won't do it for you.
  • Check when the account was last active, particularly on no-payment platforms.
HaleyD
Joined Jul 2023
1,713 posts
#6

Seconding this — @Wyatt Garcia, the point about working out what is actually different is the part people miss.

The pattern I keep seeing is that nothing changes the proportion of real accounts you see as much as whether the photos look like the same person, though it varies enormously by city where working out what is actually different is concerned.

Lucas Miller
Joined May 2022
2,628 posts
#7

Can confirm — @Avery Jackson, the paywall comment is underrated.

The bit that keeps catching me out is that the block function ignores about half of what you set, especially once working out what is actually different comes into it.

Happy to be argued with where working out what is actually different is concerned.

If you want something to compare against, Rendate is free to browse and message.

AlexisF
Joined Aug 2024
2,493 posts
#8

The pattern I keep seeing is that on no-payment platforms, how narrow your filters are has a bigger effect on how many conversations survive past day three than how polished the profile looks on no-payment platforms.

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