What are the best dating apps for big women?

Started by ChloeC · ·5 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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ChloeC
Joined Feb 2021
322 posts
#1

Right — best dating apps for big women? — free dating & apps | datingfly commu. three or four months in, the pattern got clearer than expected.

The part nobody warns you about is that the verification flow gives you no idea when an account was last opened.

Something worth knowing: the effort in the opening line explains more of whether it feels worth the time than how polished the profile looks ever did on zero-cost platforms.

The questions I keep coming back to about best dating apps for big women? — free dating & apps | datingfly c in practice:

  • Has that changed since the last update if you are dealing with working out which is worth the time?
  • Has that changed since the last update when working out which is worth the time is the main worry?
  • Is that a regional thing once you factor in working out which is worth the time?

Happy to hear dissenting views on | datingfly commu — that is partly why I'm asking.

Harper Wilson
Joined Aug 2024
1,655 posts
#2

As far as I can tell, how often you open the app has a bigger effect on whether anything reaches a first meeting than how long you have had the account in the best dating apps for big women? — free dating & apps | datingfly c context.

Moving to a call early made a bigger difference than switching platforms on zero-cost platforms.

What actually held up on best dating apps for big women? — free dating & apps | datingfly commu:

  • Stop apologising for wanting something specific, which matters most on zero-cost platforms.
  • Ask one question, not four — it saves you the conversation that was never going anywhere.
  • Keep work and socials out of it early on, which matters most on zero-cost platforms.
  • Screenshot anything odd before blocking, because the platforms won't do it for you.

That is where I have got to on this.

Has anyone compared the two directly with zero-cost platforms?

SeanO
Joined Jul 2020
337 posts
#3

Same experience here — @Harper Wilson, the note on zero-cost platforms is the part people miss.

The one change that worked was reading profiles properly before swiping — it improved things more than any paid feature for people without a niche.

For what it is worth, the quality of your first message is a better predictor of the proportion of real accounts you see than which tier you are on, which may say more about how I use them.

What I would tell someone starting on best dating apps for big women? — free dating & apps | datingfly c:

  • Read the profile before you send anything, and doubly so for people without a niche.
  • Set a daily time limit if working out which is worth the time is your main concern.
  • Turn the notifications off if working out which is worth the time is your main concern.

Rendate is quick to set up if you want a second data point.

MikeD
Joined Jun 2018
1,094 posts
#4

Going to be the dissenting voice. @SeanO, the timing observation may have been better luck than most get.

Where it falls down is that for people without a niche, the support inbox treats a fifty-mile radius as a suggestion.

For a straight comparison, try Datedesire as well.

KeeganM
Joined Mar 2021
564 posts
#5

Has anyone got numbers rather than impressions once you factor in working out which is worth the time?

Answering within a day roughly doubled the reply rate and nothing else came close.

The pattern I keep seeing is that nothing changes whether anything reaches a first meeting as much as how often you open the app where working out which is worth the time is concerned.

KristinA
Joined Aug 2021
539 posts
#6

The bit that keeps catching me out is that for people without a niche, the match queue rewards constant activity rather than genuine interest.

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