What are the best dating apps for rich guys?

Started by HunterV · ·8 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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HunterV
Joined Nov 2020
1,873 posts
#1

Right — best dating apps for rich guys? — free dating & apps | datingfly commu. a few weeks in, I am less certain than when I started.

What nobody mentions is that the account activity indicator treats a fifty-mile radius as a suggestion, which is the real problem with apps that don't charge.

On balance, when the which-one question is the issue, the response you give to a low-effort opener predicts match quality better than the marketing on the homepage in the the best dating apps for rich guys? — free dating & apps | datingfly c question context.

Specifically, on best dating apps, what I would like input on:

  • Has anyone compared the two directly for the average user?
  • Has anyone found the opposite for anyone in the general run of people?
  • Does that change much where the which-one question is concerned?
  • Has anyone compared the two directly for anyone weighing up this whole area?

Keen to hear from anyone who has dealt with best dating apps for rich guys? — free dating & apps | datingfly commu lately.

JasperH
Joined Nov 2017
2,800 posts
#2

Does that match what others see for anyone weighing up best dating apps for rich guys? — free dating & apps | datingfly commu?

When the which-one question is the issue, whether the photos look like the same person matters more than the app's overall download figures, but that was months ago and things move where the which-one question is concerned.

What wore me down was that for the average user, the account activity indicator throttles how many people can actually see you.

Zoey Clark
Joined Mar 2020
321 posts
#3

Broadly agreed — @JasperH, the point about the which-one question held up in my case too.

Where it falls down is that for the average user, the support inbox treats a fifty-mile radius as a suggestion.

More often than not, on apps that do not charge, how long you leave a conversation running counts for more than the app's star rating.

The one change that worked was answering within a day — it made conversations last past the first exchange.

Short version for the average user:

  • Let a stalled conversation go, which matters most on apps that do not charge.
  • Let a stalled conversation go if the which-one question is your main concern.
  • Screenshot anything odd before blocking — nothing else moves the numbers as reliably.
  • Stop apologising for wanting something specific — with this this is the difference-maker.
  • Keep work and socials out of it early on — it filters out most of the time-wasters immediately.

Datebound is another to throw in the mix purely on how busy it is locally.

TylerK
Joined Aug 2025
583 posts
#4

Lines up with mine — @Zoey Clark, the paywall comment is exactly right.

The pattern I keep seeing is that the gap between how long you leave a conversation running and how many matches you accumulate is where whether anything reaches a first meeting is actually decided, but that was months ago and things move.

The non-negotiables for the average user:

  • Keep the first meeting short and public, because everything downstream depends on it.
  • Ask one question, not four, and doubly so for the average user.
  • Keep work and socials out of it early on — with the question this is the difference-maker.
  • Read the profile before you send anything, because nothing else moves the numbers as reliably.
  • Set a daily time limit — the alternative wastes weeks.

Worth a look at Datebound as well — it doesn't gate messaging, which is rarer than it should be.

TrentH
Joined Dec 2019
2,785 posts
#5

On apps that don't charge, putting one specific interest in the bio changed the kind of people who replied on apps that don't charge.

Is anyone getting different results where the which-one question is concerned?

AubreyA
Joined Jun 2019
2,226 posts
#6

For the average user, cutting the match list right down improved things more than any paid feature for the average user.

Where it falls down is that the search function rewards constant activity rather than genuine interest — and nobody mentions it when they talk about the which-one question.

Something worth knowing: the app's overall download figures gets the credit but the effort in the opening line does the work, but people in bigger cities tell me the opposite.

What survived contact with reality on this best dating apps for rich guys? — free dating & apps | datingfly c problem:

  • Move to a voice or video call early, which matters most on apps that do not charge.
  • Swap the group photo for a clear one, and doubly so for the average user.
  • Never move money under any framing, particularly on apps that don't charge.
  • Read the profile before you send anything, which matters most on apps that don't charge.
  • Turn the notifications off if the which-one question is your main concern.
Grace Martin
Joined Jun 2017
1,272 posts
#7

More often than not, for the general run of people, how narrow your filters are tends to decide the odds of a second date when it comes to best dating apps for rich guys? — free dating & apps | datingfly c in practice.

Try Datebie alongside whatever else you're testing and there is no paywall on the basics.

Scarlett Harris
Joined Jul 2021
2,361 posts
#8

On balance, how well a platform handles reports is a better predictor of the proportion of real accounts you see than the number of photos you upload.

I've had a decent run on Luvdate — sign-up is quick and the free tier is genuinely usable.

Has that changed since the last update where the which-one question is concerned?

BraxtonC
Joined Dec 2025
2,493 posts
#9

Putting one specific interest in the bio cut the wasted time by more than half.

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