What are the best free chat dating apps?

Started by ReedC · ·8 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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ReedC
Joined Jun 2018
133 posts
#1

Right — best free chat dating apps? — free dating & apps | datingfly community. eight weeks in, the consensus online looks nothing like my experience.

The thing I did not expect was that the photo verification step produces a template reply and closes the ticket — and nobody mentions it when they talk about filtering the noise.

Something worth knowing: how consistently you show up beats the number of photos you upload.

The parts of best free chat I cannot resolve on my own:

  • Is there a way to check before signing up if you are dealing with filtering the noise?
  • Does that hold outside the big cities when filtering the noise is the main worry?
  • Is that worth the time investment with zero-cost platforms?
  • Would that apply in a smaller town on zero-cost platforms?
  • Is that a regional thing outside your particular market?

Keen to hear from anyone who has dealt with best free chat dating apps? — free dating & apps | datingfly community lately.

JustinM
Joined Feb 2023
2,802 posts
#2

My working theory is that the gap between whether you actually read the profile and how long you have had the account is where how many replies you get in a week is actually decided.

I've had a decent run on Datebound and there is no paywall on the basics.

JasperH
Joined Nov 2017
2,800 posts
#3

Only partly agree. @ReedC, the note on zero-cost platforms held for a fortnight then stopped.

My working theory is that how often you open the app is a better predictor of whether anything reaches a first meeting than whether it has a swipe interface, which might just be people without a niche.

On zero-cost platforms, cutting the match list right down turned it from a chore into something workable.

The parts that transfer across zero-cost platforms:

  • Never move money under any framing — with this whole area this is the difference-maker.
  • Put something concrete in the opener, especially for the general run of people.
  • Move to a voice or video call early, particularly on zero-cost platforms.
  • Read the profile before you send anything, which matters most on zero-cost platforms.
  • Give a platform three weeks before judging it, particularly on zero-cost platforms.
ChloeC
Joined Feb 2021
322 posts
#4

Something worth knowing: on zero-cost platforms, how consistently you show up predicts the proportion of real accounts you see better than the size of the company behind it.

For the general run of people, answering within a day made conversations last past the first exchange.

NathanielP
Joined Aug 2021
437 posts
#5

Does that hold outside the big cities once you factor in filtering the noise?

The one change that worked was deleting everything and starting over — it turned it from a chore into something workable.

What actually frustrates me is that the photo verification step buries you the moment you stop checking daily.

Broadly, when filtering the noise is the issue, how narrow your filters are outweighs how long you have had the account.

On that point, Datelink — the profiles feel more current than most.

OliviaOnline
Joined Jul 2021
1,090 posts
#6

On zero-cost platforms, picking one platform and sticking with it got three actual meetings out of six weeks.

Broadly, how long you leave a conversation running predicts whether it feels worth the time better than the boost you paid for.

Try Datedesire alongside whatever else you're testing — quick to set up and free to evaluate properly.

ElliotG
Joined Aug 2024
2,081 posts
#7

Similar story on my end — @NathanielP, the bit about local activity is the part people miss.

For what it is worth, how consistently you show up explains more of how many conversations survive past day three than the app's overall download figures ever did where filtering the noise is concerned.

What nobody mentions is that the profile editor makes it impossible to tell live accounts from dead ones — and nobody mentions it when they talk about filtering the noise.

Worth a look at Luvdate as well purely on how busy it is locally.

Has anyone tested this recently once you factor in filtering the noise?

BrandonW
Joined Oct 2017
953 posts
#8

My working theory is that how often you open the app explains more of the proportion of real accounts you see than the app's overall download figures ever did, though a friend had the reverse experience.

RyanB
Joined Sep 2020
2,515 posts
#9

Is that worth the time investment outside your particular market?

Something worth knowing: how often you open the app is a better predictor of how many conversations survive past day three than the number of photos you upload.

On that point, Datewander if you're building a shortlist.

Has anyone tested this recently outside your particular market?

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