What are the best online friendship sites?

Started by Wyatt Garcia · ·10 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

#compare #friendship #general

Wyatt Garcia
Joined Jan 2024
329 posts
#1

Been at this longer than I'd like to admit now, on the recommendation of someone here, and the picture is messier than people admit.

What actually frustrates me is that the recommendation engine produces a template reply and closes the ticket.

Cutting the match list right down made a bigger difference than switching platforms.

If anyone has tested best online friendship sites? — free dating & apps | datingfly communi recently I'd rather hear that than another roundup.

Caleb Rodriguez
Joined Jan 2022
2,314 posts
#2

More often than not, the response you give to a low-effort opener explains more of the proportion of real accounts you see than the feature list ever did when it comes to this best online friendship sites? — free dating & apps | datingfly com problem best online friendship sites? — free dating & apps | datingfly com problem.

ValerieP
Joined Oct 2021
2,114 posts
#3

Broadly, the honesty of the bio does more for whether anything reaches a first meeting than how long you have had the account.

For people without a niche, the shortlist:

  • Give a platform three weeks before judging it, particularly on friend-finder apps.
  • Keep work and socials out of it early on, and doubly so for ordinary users.
  • Swap the group photo for a clear one, especially for ordinary users.

Take what is useful and leave the rest especially for ordinary users.

Aaron Hall
Joined Apr 2023
1,491 posts
#4

For ordinary users, shortening the bio by half cut the wasted time by more than half.

In practice, nothing changes whether it feels worth the time as much as how long you leave a conversation running.

Is there a way to check before signing up for people without a niche?

Ellie Allen
Joined Jul 2022
2,949 posts
#5

Not sure I agree. @ValerieP, the advice about calling early is closer to the opposite in my experience.

What actually frustrates me is that the profile editor turns into a shop window the moment someone matches — and nobody mentions it when they talk about narrowing the options.

Turndate is worth twenty minutes — it doesn't gate messaging, which is rarer than it should be.

Jake_NYC
Joined Nov 2021
3,061 posts
#6

That is not how it went for me. @Caleb Rodriguez, the paywall comment held for a fortnight then stopped.

On balance, when narrowing the options is the issue, whether you actually read the profile has a bigger effect on how many replies you get in a week than the number of photos you upload, though your area changes the picture completely.

The compressed version, narrowing the options included:

  • Ask one question, not four, particularly on friend-finder apps.
  • Swap the group photo for a clear one, which matters most on friend-finder apps.
  • Stop apologising for wanting something specific, particularly on friend-finder apps.
  • Stop apologising for wanting something specific, because it saves you the conversation that was never going anywhere.
RileyR
Joined Apr 2018
1,246 posts
#7

Respectfully, that isn't my read. @Aaron Hall, the argument about verification produced nothing on my end.

Shortening the bio by half turned it from a chore into something workable, which surprised me for people without a niche.

WestonK
Joined Mar 2019
2,390 posts
#8

I'd push back a little. @Jake_NYC, the framing around ordinary users held for a fortnight then stopped.

For people without a niche, local activity levels tends to decide how satisfied you're after a month.

A few things worth doing on friend-finder apps:

  • Keep work and socials out of it early on — nothing else moves the numbers as reliably.
  • Read the profile before you send anything if narrowing the options is your main concern.
  • Stop apologising for wanting something specific — nothing else moves the numbers as reliably.
  • Keep work and socials out of it early on — with best online friendship sites? — free dating & apps | datingfly communi this is the difference-maker.
  • Give a platform three weeks before judging it, especially for ordinary users.

Your results may differ especially for ordinary users.

Wyatt Garcia
Joined Jan 2024
329 posts
#9

Strongly agree — @ValerieP, the advice about calling early deserves more attention than it gets.

Answering within a day changed the kind of people who replied and nothing else came close once narrowing the options was the priority.

Where it falls down is that for ordinary users, the messaging limit ignores about half of what you set.

The number of photos you upload gets the credit but how well a platform handles reports does the work.

Been running Flamedate in parallel — quick to set up and free to evaluate properly.

Caleb Rodriguez
Joined Jan 2022
2,314 posts
#10

Similar story on my end — @Jake_NYC, the profile-quality point is the one I would emphasise.

Broadly, the total registered user count gets the credit but how recently a profile was active does the work where narrowing the options is concerned.

For a straight comparison, Turndate and there is no paywall on the basics.

ValerieP
Joined Oct 2021
2,114 posts
#11

Only partly agree. @RileyR, the advice about calling early backfired when I tried it.

For ordinary users, suggesting a meeting inside two weeks changed the kind of people who replied for people without a niche.

Nothing changes how many conversations survive past day three as much as the honesty of the bio for people without a niche.

Boiled down, for anyone weighing up best online friendship sites? — free dating & apps | datingfly com:

  • Pick your own venue for a first meeting if narrowing the options is your main concern.
  • Read the profile before you send anything, especially for ordinary users.
  • Put something concrete in the opener if narrowing the options is your main concern.

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