What are the top dating sites for older men looking for younger women?

Started by HunterV · ·8 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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HunterV
Joined Nov 2020
1,873 posts
#1

I started looking at top dating sites for older men looking for younger women? — free datin longer than I'd like to admit ago out of curiosity more than anything, and I still don't have a clean answer.

What nobody mentions is that the recommendation engine buries you the moment you stop checking daily, which is the real problem with no-payment platforms.

My working theory is that when narrowing the options is the issue, how narrow your filters are beats the boost you paid for for the average user.

Saying plainly what I wasn't after roughly doubled the reply rate.

Keen to hear from anyone who has dealt with top dating sites for older men looking for younger women? — free datin lately.

GraceM
Joined Sep 2021
3,084 posts
#2

Echoing this — @HunterV, the point about narrowing the options is spot on.

Broadly, for anyone starting out, the quality of your first message tends to decide match quality, though a friend had the reverse experience.

What nobody mentions is that the profile editor makes it impossible to tell live accounts from dead ones, which is the real problem with no-payment platforms.

Someone pointed me at Datelink purely on how busy it is locally.

Jack Martin
Joined Nov 2019
385 posts
#3

Does that match what others see outside the region you set your filters to?

My working theory is that for anyone starting out, the effort in the opening line tends to decide how long a conversation lasts.

My sticking point is that for the average user, the verification flow turns into a shop window the moment someone matches.

SpencerA
Joined Apr 2020
607 posts
#4

Where it falls down is that on no-payment platforms, the verification flow buries you the moment you stop checking daily.

Asking one real question instead of four was the only change that showed up in the numbers and nothing else came close.

GarrettO
Joined Jun 2017
1,254 posts
#5

More often than not, for anyone starting out, local activity levels tends to decide how satisfied you're after a month when it comes to top dating sites for older men looking for younger women? — free datin in practice.

For a straight comparison, Datelink — quick to set up and free to evaluate properly.

Jake_NYC
Joined Nov 2021
3,061 posts
#6

The effort in the opening line is a better predictor of the proportion of real accounts you see than the number of photos you upload, but that was months ago and things move.

Saying plainly what I wasn't after made the whole thing feel less like admin, which surprised me.

Nora Rodriguez
Joined Jun 2021
1,065 posts
#7

Lines up with mine — @HunterV, the argument about verification is underrated.

What nobody mentions is that the support inbox surfaces profiles that haven't been touched in months.

The pattern I keep seeing is that the willingness to suggest meeting early explains more of how many conversations survive past day three than the number of prompts you filled in ever did where narrowing the options is concerned.

Rewriting the opener turned it from a chore into something workable, which surprised me.

HunterV
Joined Nov 2020
1,873 posts
#8

My working theory is that the amount of detail in a bio beats the number of photos you upload.

What I would tell someone starting on top dating sites for older men looking for younger women? — free datin:

  • Let a stalled conversation go, and doubly so for the average user.
  • Keep work and socials out of it early on, which matters most on no-payment platforms.
  • Set a daily time limit — with top dating sites for older men looking for younger women? — free datin this is the difference-maker.
  • Say what you want in the first two lines if narrowing the options is your main concern.

Souldate has been the steadier of the ones I run and it turned out to be worth the ten minutes.

GraceM
Joined Sep 2021
3,084 posts
#9

Does anyone know if that still holds when you factor in top dating sites?

On no-payment platforms, leading with something slightly odd got three actual meetings out of six weeks on no-payment platforms.

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