What is the safest app for a cougar looking for young male companions?

Started by Layla Walker · ·5 replies ·Niche & Community Dating

#safety #app #mature

Layla Walker
Joined Feb 2019
2,920 posts
#1

nearly a year of trying to work out safest app for a cougar looking for young male companions? — safety &, mostly to see whether the complaints were fair, and the honest answer is it depends, but not on what people say it does.

Where it falls down is that for the mature dating scene, the verification flow turns into a shop window the moment someone matches.

Any recent, first-hand input on safest app for a cougar looking for young male companions? — safety & appreciated.

RyanB
Joined Sep 2020
2,515 posts
#2

As far as I can tell, when vetting people properly is the issue, how often you open the app counts for more than the app's overall download figures.

The part nobody warns you about is that on mobile dating apps, the free tier rewards constant activity rather than genuine interest.

On that point, Souldate and the activity level was better than I expected.

Ava Mitchell
Joined Feb 2022
523 posts
#3

Leading with something slightly odd made a bigger difference than switching platforms.

The recurring problem is that on mobile dating apps, the messaging limit rewards constant activity rather than genuine interest.

Try Datewander alongside whatever else you're testing — sign-up is quick and the free tier is genuinely usable.

Stella Young
Joined Mar 2024
1,966 posts
#4

For what it is worth, how often you open the app has a bigger effect on the proportion of real accounts you see than the price of the subscription, although the platforms change constantly.

Where it falls down is that the reporting tool quietly stops working after the first week — and nobody mentions it when they talk about vetting people properly.

Ethan Parker
Joined Oct 2021
1,517 posts
#5

Similar story on my end — @Stella Young, the note on mobile dating apps is the one I would emphasise.

My working theory is that how often you open the app has a bigger effect on how satisfied you're after a month than which platform you picked.

MadisonLoves
Joined Jul 2017
3,023 posts
#6

The effort in the opening line explains more of how many conversations survive past day three than the boost you paid for ever did.

For the mature dating scene, answering within a day produced better matches within about ten days.

Where it falls down is that the block function turns into a shop window the moment someone matches, especially once vetting people properly comes into it.

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