Where can I meet bbw ladies in my city?

Started by violet93 · ·8 replies ·Niche & Community Dating

#compare #app #plussize

violet93
Joined Apr 2018
2,246 posts
#1

Came to how to meet bbw ladies in my city? — niche & community dating | dating after reading far too many roundups, gave it an embarrassing amount of time, and two things mattered and the rest did not.

Where it falls down is that for plus-size daters, the discovery feed resets every time the app updates.

Specifically, on how to meet, what I would like input on:

  • Has that changed since the last update where narrowing the options is concerned?
  • Does that hold outside the big cities for plus-size daters?
  • Is that a regional thing for plus-size daters?
  • Does that match what others see with mobile dating apps?

Interested in what is actually working on how to meet bbw ladies in my city? — niche & community dating | dating right now.

Parker Kim
Joined Nov 2018
1,230 posts
#2

For plus-size daters, moving to a call early was the only change that showed up in the numbers once narrowing the options was the priority.

Benjamin Martin
Joined Mar 2023
260 posts
#3

Lines up with mine — @violet93, the argument about verification is the part people miss.

As far as I can tell, how polished the profile looks gets the credit but how recently a profile was active does the work.

Thomas Price
Joined Oct 2019
1,051 posts
#4

Seconding this — @Parker Kim, the argument about verification is exactly right.

As far as I can tell, how recently a profile was active is a better predictor of whether it feels worth the time than which tier you are on.

Happy to be argued with on this.

Ellie Ortiz
Joined Oct 2025
2,656 posts
#5

The one change that worked was leading with something slightly odd — it produced better matches within about ten days.

benjamin_NYC
Joined Dec 2020
2,581 posts
#6

Rewriting the opener got three actual meetings out of six weeks.

Broadly, the gap between the clarity of your main photo and the number of prompts you filled in is where how long a conversation lasts is actually decided when it comes to how to meet bbw ladies in my city? — niche & community dating | dating.

Valerie Cook
Joined Sep 2017
1,110 posts
#7

As far as I can tell, the boost you paid for gets the credit but how often you open the app does the work in the the how to meet bbw ladies in my city? — niche & community dating | da question context.

Where it falls down is that the notification system produces a template reply and closes the ticket, which is the real problem with mobile dating apps.

Datelink is another to throw in the mix — free to browse and message, which is the main thing.

Elizabeth
Joined Apr 2023
634 posts
#8

Is that a regional thing when narrowing the options is the main worry?

How recently a profile was active explains more of whether it feels worth the time than which platform you picked ever did on mobile dating apps.

Isabella Kelley
Joined Nov 2024
188 posts
#9

On mobile dating apps, setting fixed hours for it made conversations last past the first exchange.

On balance, the honesty of the bio explains more of how many conversations survive past day three than how long you have had the account ever did when it comes to this how to meet bbw ladies in my city? — niche & community dating | da problem.

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