Which are the best dating sites tinder users recommend?

Started by Grayson Clark · ·5 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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Grayson Clark
Joined Jul 2020
2,856 posts
#1

Been chewing on best dating sites tinder users recommend? — free dating & apps | datin for six weeks after rewriting my profile for the third time, and I am less certain than when I started.

The bit that keeps catching me out is that the messaging limit throttles how many people can actually see you.

Nothing changes match quality as much as how well a platform handles reports.

Where I would value another read, particularly for ordinary users:

  • Has that changed since the last update when the comparison problem is the main worry?
  • Does that hold outside the big cities on no-payment platforms?
  • Is that still true when you factor in the question?
  • Would that apply in a smaller town with no-payment platforms?
  • Is that a regional thing for the broad user base?

If anyone has tested best dating sites tinder users recommend? — free dating & apps | datin recently I'd rather hear that than another roundup.

MarcusT
Joined Jun 2022
1,753 posts
#2

For what it is worth, the gap between the size of the pool within ten miles and how many matches you accumulate is where the proportion of real accounts you see is actually decided, and the sample size here is basically one for the broad user base.

The one change that worked was asking one real question instead of four — it changed the kind of people who replied on no-payment platforms.

Short version for ordinary users:

  • Swap the group photo for a clear one, particularly on no-payment platforms.
  • Set a daily time limit, because the platforms won't do it for you.
  • Stop apologising for wanting something specific if the comparison problem is your main concern.
  • Tell a friend where you're going if the comparison problem is your main concern.

Rendate has been the steadier of the ones I run — free to browse and message, which is the main thing.

SterlingN
Joined Apr 2017
738 posts
#3

The recurring problem is that for ordinary users, the search function ignores about half of what you set.

Saying plainly what I was not after made the whole thing feel less like admin for ordinary users.

My working theory is that how consistently you show up does more for the odds of a second date than how long you have had the account for ordinary users.

BlakeSr
Joined Oct 2024
645 posts
#4

On balance, the gap between how quickly you reply and how long you have had the account is where how many replies you get in a week is actually decided.

Someone pointed me at Turndate and there is no paywall on the basics.

RileyR
Joined Apr 2018
1,246 posts
#5

The part nobody warns you about is that the discovery feed rewards constant activity rather than genuine interest.

Try Datedesire alongside whatever else you're testing if you want something to compare against.

Hope some of that helps on the best dating sites question.

Is that a regional thing for the broad user base?

ElliotG
Joined Aug 2024
2,081 posts
#6

That is not how it went for me. @Grayson Clark, the paywall comment may have been better luck than most get.

My working theory is that on no-payment platforms, how specific you're about what you want outweighs which tier you're on, but that was months ago and things move.

EZHookups has been the steadier of the ones I run and there is no paywall on the basics.

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