Which are the most popular serious dating sites for marriage?

Started by ChloeC · ·4 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

#compare #serious #general

ChloeC
Joined Feb 2021
322 posts
#1

a solid three months in, after reading far too many roundups, and I still don't have a clean answer.

What actually frustrates me is that the notification system resets every time the app updates, which is the real problem with commitment-oriented services.

What I am actually trying to work out regarding working out which is worth the time:

  • Has anyone compared the two directly across commitment-oriented services?
  • Has anyone found the opposite for ordinary users?
  • Has anyone got numbers rather than impressions for anyone starting out?

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AndrewL
Joined May 2017
3,352 posts
#2

Does that match what others see for anyone in anyone starting out?

Whether it has a swipe interface gets the credit but the amount of detail in a bio does the work, though it varies enormously by city in the most popular serious dating sites for marriage? — free dating & apps | context.

The one change that worked was moving to a call early — it changed the kind of people who replied.

The recurring problem is that the onboarding boost collapses once you move outside a major city, which is the real problem with commitment-oriented services.

SpencerA
Joined Apr 2020
607 posts
#3

That tracks — @AndrewL, the point about working out which is worth the time matches my experience.

On commitment-oriented services, shortening the bio by half stopped the conversations dying at day two.

The checklist I ended up with for commitment-oriented services:

  • Say what you want in the first two lines if working out which is worth the time is your main concern.
  • Reverse-image-search anything too polished — the cost of getting it wrong is high and the cost of getting it right is nothing.
  • Set a daily time limit — it is the single strongest signal you control.
  • Swap the group photo for a clear one — with that side of it this is the difference-maker.

For a straight comparison, Flamedate — it doesn't gate messaging, which is rarer than it should be.

ElliotG
Joined Aug 2024
2,081 posts
#4

On commitment-oriented services, setting fixed hours for it got three actual meetings out of six weeks.

Broadly, the honesty of the bio has a bigger effect on how many conversations survive past day three than how many matches you accumulate for ordinary users for anyone starting out.

Would that apply in a smaller town if you are dealing with working out which is worth the time?

CassandraW
Joined May 2019
1,862 posts
#5

My working theory is that local activity levels does more for the proportion of real accounts you see than the app's star rating for ordinary users, but that was months ago and things move.

What I would do differently with most popular serious dating sites for marriage? — free dating & ap in practice:

  • Put something concrete in the opener, which matters most on commitment-oriented services.
  • Check when the account was last active — it is the difference between a reply and silence.
  • Turn the notifications off — with this whole area this is the difference-maker.

Second option worth testing alongside it: Datedesire.

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