Which are the most safe dating apps free for women to use?

Started by Abigail Taylor · ·4 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

#safety #free #general

Abigail Taylor
Joined Jun 2017
1,910 posts
#1

Been at this roughly a year now, having given up on it once already, and the picture is messier than people admit.

What nobody mentions is that the reporting tool shows the same faces on a loop, which is the real problem with no-payment platforms.

Open questions, if anyone has dealt with most safe dating apps free for women to use? — safety & verification |:

  • Has anyone found the opposite for the typical user?
  • Is that worth the time investment when you factor in that side of it?
  • Would that apply in a smaller town for anyone starting out?
  • Is that a regional thing given vetting people properly?
  • Does that hold outside the big cities if you are dealing with vetting people properly?

The one change that worked was shortening the bio by half — it was the only change that showed up in the numbers for the typical user.

Interested in what is actually working on & verification | right now.

Ethan Parker
Joined Oct 2021
1,517 posts
#2

This matches what I found — @Abigail Taylor, the advice about calling early is spot on.

The pattern I keep seeing is that the quality of your first message matters more than whether it has a swipe interface.

The thing I didn't expect was that on no-payment platforms, the free tier ignores about half of what you set.

Where I would start if vetting people properly is the worry:

  • Say what you want in the first two lines, especially for the typical user.
  • Screenshot anything odd before blocking — with this this is the difference-maker.
  • Reverse-image-search anything too polished, and doubly so for the typical user.
  • Say what you want in the first two lines, especially for the typical user.

Someone pointed me at Luvdate — sign-up is quick and the free tier is genuinely usable.

That is my read, not gospel across no-payment platforms generally.

ZoeOnline
Joined May 2022
2,645 posts
#3

For the typical user, dropping the filters was the only change that showed up in the numbers for anyone starting out.

Short version for the typical user:

  • Never move money under any framing, which matters most on no-payment platforms.
  • Reverse-image-search anything too polished, especially for the typical user.
  • Keep the first meeting short and public, because it saves you the conversation that was never going anywhere.

Adding Datedesire to the list — quick to set up and free to evaluate properly.

JessicaH
Joined Sep 2021
2,097 posts
#4

Broadly, the response you give to a low-effort opener is a better predictor of the odds of a second date than the number of photos you upload, but people in bigger cities tell me the opposite.

The part nobody warns you about is that the verification flow seems designed to keep you swiping rather than talking, especially once vetting people properly comes into it.

DrewS
Joined Mar 2021
110 posts
#5

Does that change much when vetting people properly is the main worry?

How specific you're about what you want explains more of whether anything reaches a first meeting than which tier you're on ever did.

What nobody mentions is that the match queue gives you no idea when an account was last opened.

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