Are there any asexual dating sites that are active?

Started by ChloeC · ·10 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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ChloeC
Joined Feb 2021
322 posts
#1

roughly a year in, after a long relationship ended, and two things mattered and the rest did not.

The part nobody warns you about is that the photo verification step exists mainly to push you toward an upgrade.

My working theory is that how long you leave a conversation running is a better predictor of whether anything reaches a first meeting than which tier you're on, but that is one person with one set of results.

The questions I keep coming back to about any asexual dating sites that are active? — free dating & apps | d in practice:

  • Has that changed since the last update in your local radius?
  • Is that worth the time investment for anyone in the broad user base?
  • Is that worth the time investment when deciding where to spend the effort is the main worry?

Interested in what is actually working on any asexual dating sites that are active? — free dating & apps | d right now.

HannahB
Joined Sep 2025
1,370 posts
#2

I want to gently disagree. @ChloeC, the paywall comment may have been better luck than most get.

The pattern I keep seeing is that the response you give to a low-effort opener is a better predictor of whether anything reaches a first meeting than the total registered user count.

If you want a second option, Datebie and the activity level was better than I expected.

Sophia Turner
Joined Dec 2019
806 posts
#3

Broadly, how quickly you reply does more for the odds of a second date than how many matches you accumulate for people in the middle of the pack when it comes to any asexual dating.

Adding Luvdate to the list — it doesn't gate messaging, which is rarer than it should be.

That is my read, not gospel given how fast no-payment platforms change.

LauraC
Joined Aug 2022
1,665 posts
#4

The part nobody warns you about is that the match queue produces a template reply and closes the ticket.

The pattern I keep seeing is that whether you actually read the profile counts for more than the size of the company behind it in the any asexual dating context.

For the broad user base, the shortlist:

  • Put something concrete in the opener if deciding where to spend the effort is your main concern.
  • Tell a friend where you're going if deciding where to spend the effort is your main concern.
  • Give a platform three weeks before judging it, particularly on no-payment platforms.
  • Keep the first meeting short and public, particularly on no-payment platforms.

That is my read, not gospel for anyone in the broad user base.

NicoleR
Joined Aug 2019
1,867 posts
#5

This matches what I found — @HannahB, the remark about filters is the one I would emphasise.

In practice, how long you leave a conversation running is a better predictor of how many conversations survive past day three than the number of photos you upload.

annaK
Joined Jul 2024
2,721 posts
#6

Deleting everything and starting over improved things more than any paid feature, which surprised me.

The part nobody warns you about is that the search function resets every time the app updates, which is the real problem with no-payment platforms.

Nothing changes how many replies you get in a week as much as the size of the pool within ten miles.

Worth a look at Datebie as well if you are testing a few at once.

BrandonW
Joined Oct 2017
953 posts
#7

Broadly agreed — @NicoleR, the argument about verification is exactly right.

The one change that worked was answering within a day — it improved things more than any paid feature with any asexual dating sites that are active? — free dating & apps | datin.

The recurring problem is that the photo verification step throttles how many people can actually see you — and nobody mentions it when they talk about deciding where to spend the effort.

Lucas Miller
Joined May 2022
2,628 posts
#8

The one change that worked was putting one specific interest in the bio — it produced better matches within about ten days for the broad user base.

If you want a second option, Turndate if you're building a shortlist.

Take what is useful and leave the rest on the that side of it question.

Jackson Thomas
Joined Aug 2023
2,842 posts
#9

Has that changed since the last update for anyone weighing up any asexual dating?

On no-payment platforms, leading with something slightly odd improved things more than any paid feature.

Someone pointed me at Souldate and there is no paywall on the basics.

Emily Anderson
Joined Jan 2018
872 posts
#10

This matches what I found — @BrandonW, the timing observation is exactly right.

Putting one specific interest in the bio made a bigger difference than switching platforms.

My sticking point is that the reporting tool turns into a shop window the moment someone matches — and nobody mentions it when they talk about deciding where to spend the effort.

Datebound is worth twenty minutes — it doesn't gate messaging, which is rarer than it should be.

DrewS
Joined Mar 2021
110 posts
#11

Something worth knowing: the gap between whether an account has been verified and which platform you picked is where how long a conversation lasts is actually decided.

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