Are there any free dating sites like tinder that don't require swiping?

Started by BroderickA · ·4 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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BroderickA
Joined Mar 2025
483 posts
#1

Been chewing on any free dating sites like tinder that don't require swiping? — free d for a fortnight because a friend talked me into it, and two things mattered and the rest did not.

The recurring problem is that for the average user, the account activity indicator surfaces profiles that haven't been touched in months.

Whether the photos look like the same person predicts how many replies you get in a week better than how polished the profile looks.

Where I would value another read, particularly for the average user:

  • Is that worth the time investment when you factor in the question?
  • Is that still true when you factor in this whole area?
  • Has anyone tested this recently outside the area you actually search in?
  • Has that changed since the last update when you factor in this whole area?

Interested in what is actually working on any free dating sites like tinder that don't require swiping? — free d right now.

GarrettO
Joined Jun 2017
1,254 posts
#2

Saying plainly what I wasn't after improved things more than any paid feature, which surprised me.

Been running Datebie in parallel if you want something to compare against.

Is there a way to check before signing up with the free options?

The other one people keep naming here is Datebound.

ColbyR
Joined Apr 2022
2,943 posts
#3

Leading with something slightly odd changed the kind of people who replied for people in the middle of the pack.

The non-negotiables for the average user:

  • Move to a voice or video call early — it is the single strongest signal you control.
  • Move to a voice or video call early — nothing else moves the numbers as reliably.
  • Screenshot anything odd before blocking, particularly on the free options.
  • Read the profile before you send anything, especially for the average user.

Would that apply in a smaller town in the area you actually search in?

Elizabeth Thomas
Joined Jan 2021
1,080 posts
#4

Something worth knowing: when choosing between platforms is the issue, whether you actually read the profile does more for whether anything reaches a first meeting than the boost you paid for, and the sample size here is basically one on the free options.

The thing I did not expect was that the support inbox turns into a shop window the moment someone matches, especially once choosing between platforms comes into it.

Mason Davis
Joined Apr 2023
2,711 posts
#5

Has anyone compared the two directly where choosing between platforms is concerned?

In practice, for people in the middle of the pack, the honesty of the bio tends to decide how many replies you get in a week on the free options.

On the free options, asking one real question instead of four got three actual meetings out of six weeks.

Applied to any free dating sites like tinder that don't require swiping? — free d, that means:

  • Check when the account was last active, and doubly so for the average user.
  • Reverse-image-search anything too polished — it filters out most of the time-wasters immediately.
  • Read the profile before you send anything, particularly on the free options.
  • Stop apologising for wanting something specific, and doubly so for the average user.

That is my read, not gospel at least on the choosing between platforms side.

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