This is close to my read — @Mason Davis, the framing around the retired crowd is exactly right.
What nobody mentions is that the verification flow seems designed to keep you swiping rather than talking — and nobody mentions it when they talk about working out which is worth the time.
Broadly, whether the photos look like the same person is a better predictor of how long a conversation lasts than which tier you are on, which might just be older daters.
How specific you are about what you want explains more of how long a conversation lasts than how polished the profile looks ever did, which might just be older daters.
For the retired crowd, picking one platform and sticking with it made the whole thing feel less like admin.
The pattern I keep seeing is that nothing changes how many conversations survive past day three as much as how quickly you reply for older daters.
Worth a look at Turndate as well — it doesn't gate messaging, which is rarer than it should be.
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