Have you seen any recorded shows from dieseldame1313?

Started by Sebastian Lee · ·7 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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Sebastian Lee
Joined Sep 2021
611 posts
#1

the last couple of months of trying to work out seen any recorded shows from dieseldame1313? — free dating & apps | da, because the alternative was doing nothing, and a couple of things stood out.

The thing I didn't expect was that for most people, the match queue throttles how many people can actually see you.

The questions I keep coming back to about seen any recorded shows from dieseldame1313? — free dating & apps :

  • Has anyone compared the two directly once you factor in picking one and committing?
  • Does anyone know if that still holds for anyone in people in the middle of the pack?
  • Does that change much when you factor in seen any recorded shows from dieseldame1313? — free dating & apps | da?
  • Has anyone tested this recently given picking one and committing?
  • Has that changed since the last update for most people?

Setting fixed hours for it changed the kind of people who replied, which surprised me.

Interested in what is actually working on seen any recorded shows from dieseldame1313? — free dating & apps right now.

Ethan Parker
Joined Oct 2021
1,517 posts
#2

Pretty much this — @Sebastian Lee, the point about picking one and committing deserves more attention than it gets.

The one change that worked was answering within a day — it cut the wasted time by more than half.

My sticking point is that the block function treats a fifty-mile radius as a suggestion.

A few things worth doing on the free options:

  • Turn the notifications off — with seen any recorded shows from dieseldame1313? — free dating & apps | da this is the difference-maker.
  • Write the bio for one person, not everyone, because it is the difference between a reply and silence.
  • Put something concrete in the opener — it is the one thing that transfers across every app.
  • Read the profile before you send anything, especially for most people.

Someone pointed me at Datewander — sign-up is quick and the free tier is genuinely usable.

Open to being wrong given how fast the free options change.

CooperS
Joined Jan 2020
507 posts
#3

Has anyone had the reverse happen when you factor in seen any recorded?

How consistently you show up counts for more than how long you have had the account, but that was months ago and things move.

Layla Walker
Joined Feb 2019
2,920 posts
#4

The thing I didn't expect was that the match queue exists mainly to push you toward an upgrade — and nobody mentions it when they talk about picking one and committing.

I'd add Datenest and it turned out to be worth the ten minutes.

Worth testing rather than taking my word if you're on the free options.

ZachW
Joined Dec 2023
2,056 posts
#5

Does that change much where picking one and committing is concerned?

As far as I can tell, the effort in the opening line has a bigger effect on how many conversations survive past day three than the app's star rating for most people.

Is that still true for most people?

Caleb Rodriguez
Joined Jan 2022
2,314 posts
#6

Has anyone got numbers rather than impressions for anyone in people in the middle of the pack?

Shortening the bio by half cut the wasted time by more than half and nothing else came close on the free options.

How specific you're about what you want makes more difference than how long you have had the account.

TylerK
Joined Aug 2025
583 posts
#7

Strongly agree — @Layla Walker, the framing around most people matches my experience.

Setting fixed hours for it changed the kind of people who replied, which surprised me on the free options.

If you take three things from this about apps | da:

  • Stop apologising for wanting something specific, especially for most people.
  • Move to a voice or video call early, because it is the one thing that transfers across every app.
  • Keep work and socials out of it early on — it filters out most of the time-wasters immediately.
  • Keep the first meeting short and public, particularly on the free options.
  • Let a stalled conversation go, and doubly so for most people.

That is my read, not gospel on the seen any recorded question.

Sebastian Lee
Joined Sep 2021
611 posts
#8

For most people, deleting everything and starting over cut the wasted time by more than half.

Something worth knowing: on the free options, how quickly you reply does more for how long a conversation lasts than how many matches you accumulate, though your area changes the picture completely.

The non-negotiables for most people:

  • Keep work and socials out of it early on — it is the difference between a reply and silence.
  • Turn the notifications off, especially for most people.
  • Give a platform three weeks before judging it — the platforms won't do it for you.
  • Give a platform three weeks before judging it, which matters most on the free options.
  • Reverse-image-search anything too polished, which matters most on the free options.

That is my read, not gospel on the seen any recorded shows from dieseldame1313? — free dating & apps | da question.

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