Is friend finder online still popular?

Started by RachelM · ·8 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

#compare #free #general

RachelM
Joined Nov 2023
2,537 posts
#1

a few weeks in, on the recommendation of someone here, and the honest answer is it depends, but not on what people say it does.

The thing I didn't expect was that the notification system treats a fifty-mile radius as a suggestion, especially once narrowing the options comes into it.

If anyone has tested friend finder online recently I'd rather hear that than another roundup.

CourtneyL
Joined Jan 2018
623 posts
#2

Has that changed since the last update where narrowing the options is concerned?

In practice, on no-payment platforms, how well a platform handles reports outweighs how long you have had the account, which may say more about how I use them for most people.

Does anyone know if that still holds if you are dealing with narrowing the options?

JordanL
Joined Nov 2025
1,967 posts
#3

The bit that keeps catching me out is that for ordinary users, the messaging limit quietly stops working after the first week.

Datescout is worth twenty minutes purely on how busy it is locally.

StellaS
Joined Apr 2023
976 posts
#4

Has anyone had the reverse happen for most people?

On balance, the gap between how long you leave a conversation running and the size of the company behind it is where how many replies you get in a week is actually decided, which may say more about how I use them in the the friend finder online question context.

Adding Flamedate to the list and the activity level was better than I expected.

Isabella Scott
Joined Nov 2021
1,192 posts
#5

Broadly agreed — @JordanL, the point about narrowing the options is spot on.

More often than not, the number of photos you upload gets the credit but how quickly you reply does the work.

Try Flurrydate alongside whatever else you're testing purely on how busy it is locally.

JessicaH
Joined Sep 2021
2,097 posts
#6

Going to be the dissenting voice. @Isabella Scott, the advice about calling early is closer to the opposite in my experience.

Shortening the bio by half stopped the conversations dying at day two, which surprised me for ordinary users.

RachelM
Joined Nov 2023
2,537 posts
#7

For ordinary users, rewriting the opener produced better matches within about ten days.

CourtneyL
Joined Jan 2018
623 posts
#8

Seconding this — @Isabella Scott, the advice about calling early matches my experience.

On no-payment platforms, setting fixed hours for it produced better matches within about ten days.

More often than not, nothing changes how satisfied you are after a month as much as how consistently you show up for ordinary users.

What actually frustrates me is that for ordinary users, the account activity indicator makes it impossible to tell live accounts from dead ones.

For a straight comparison, Datenest — quick to set up and free to evaluate properly.

JordanL
Joined Nov 2025
1,967 posts
#9

When narrowing the options is the issue, whether the photos look like the same person has a bigger effect on match quality than the size of the company behind it, but that was months ago and things move for most people.

That is my read, not gospel on the the question question.

Is there a way to check before signing up if you are dealing with narrowing the options?

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