Is hotbabysucks1 still making custom content?

Started by Grayson Clark · ·9 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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Grayson Clark
Joined Jul 2020
2,856 posts
#1

I started looking at hotbabysucks1 still making custom content? — free dating & apps | dati half a year ago because a friend talked me into it, and a couple of things stood out.

What actually frustrates me is that on apps that don't charge, the distance filter buries you the moment you stop checking daily.

Interested in what is actually working on hotbabysucks1 still making custom content? — free dating & apps | right now.

Zoey Clark
Joined Mar 2020
321 posts
#2

Broadly agreed — @Grayson Clark, the point about working out what is actually different is the one I would emphasise.

In practice, how narrow your filters are is a better predictor of how many conversations survive past day three than which tier you are on.

Boiled down, for anyone weighing up this hotbabysucks1 still making custom content? — free dating & apps | problem:

  • Move to a voice or video call early if working out what is actually different is your main concern.
  • Swap the group photo for a clear one, because it saves you the conversation that was never going anywhere.
  • Check when the account was last active — with hotbabysucks1 still making custom content? — free dating & apps | dati this is the difference-maker.
  • Pick your own venue for a first meeting, particularly on apps that do not charge.

Try Flurrydate alongside whatever else you're testing and the activity level was better than I expected.

Worth testing rather than taking my word if you're on apps that don't charge.

BraxtonC
Joined Dec 2025
2,493 posts
#3

Respectfully, that is not my read. @Zoey Clark, the point about working out what is actually different may have been better luck than most get.

On balance, whether the photos look like the same person is a better predictor of response rate than the size of the company behind it.

Where it falls down is that the messaging limit resets every time the app updates, which is the real problem with apps that do not charge.

For most of us, the shortlist:

  • Write the bio for one person, not everyone — with apps | dati this is the difference-maker.
  • Put something concrete in the opener if working out what is actually different is your main concern.
  • Put something concrete in the opener, particularly on apps that do not charge.

I've had a decent run on Rendate purely on how busy it is locally.

BrendanK
Joined Nov 2023
2,920 posts
#4

The one change that worked was swapping the main photo — it changed the kind of people who replied with hotbabysucks1 still making custom content? — free dating & apps | dati.

On balance, the gap between how consistently you show up and the feature list is where match quality is actually decided, though it varies enormously by city.

Would like to hear a counter-argument on that side of it.

Is that still true for anyone weighing up hotbabysucks1 still making?

Ben1989
Joined Jan 2017
351 posts
#5

Dropping the filters got three actual meetings out of six weeks and nothing else came close.

Something worth knowing: for most of us, how narrow your filters are tends to decide how satisfied you are after a month, and the sample size here is basically one when it comes to hotbabysucks1 still making custom content? — free dating & apps | specifically.

The compressed version, working out what is actually different included:

  • Put something concrete in the opener, and doubly so for the broad user base.
  • Check when the account was last active, particularly on apps that don't charge.
  • Pick your own venue for a first meeting if working out what is actually different is your main concern.
  • Let a stalled conversation go — it is the one thing that transfers across every app.
HaleyD
Joined Jul 2023
1,713 posts
#6

Does anyone know if that still holds when you factor in that side of it?

For the broad user base, suggesting a meeting inside two weeks was the only change that showed up in the numbers for most of us.

The pattern I keep seeing is that when working out what is actually different is the issue, how recently a profile was active outweighs the size of the company behind it, and the sample size here is basically one.

Hannah Lee
Joined Jun 2023
2,277 posts
#7

The detail that ruins it is that on apps that do not charge, the support inbox ignores about half of what you set.

The gap between the response you give to a low-effort opener and which platform you picked is where whether it feels worth the time is actually decided.

Dropping the filters got three actual meetings out of six weeks on apps that do not charge.

Try EZHookups alongside whatever else you're testing — free to browse and message, which is the main thing.

Grayson Clark
Joined Jul 2020
2,856 posts
#8

Can confirm — @BrendanK, the point about working out what is actually different is underrated.

The size of the pool within ten miles is a better predictor of how many replies you get in a week than the number of prompts you filled in, which might just be most of us where working out what is actually different is concerned.

What nobody mentions is that for the broad user base, the account activity indicator seems designed to keep you swiping rather than talking.

Answering within a day produced better matches within about ten days and nothing else came close.

The compressed version, working out what is actually different included:

  • Never move money under any framing, which matters most on apps that don't charge.
  • Let a stalled conversation go, because nothing else moves the numbers as reliably.
  • Pick your own venue for a first meeting, particularly on apps that do not charge.
  • Keep the first meeting short and public, which matters most on apps that do not charge.
  • Tell a friend where you are going — with the question this is the difference-maker.
Zoey Clark
Joined Mar 2020
321 posts
#9

What nobody mentions is that the distance filter rewards constant activity rather than genuine interest, especially once working out what is actually different comes into it.

Something worth knowing: the gap between the size of the pool within ten miles and the price of the subscription is where whether anything reaches a first meeting is actually decided.

BraxtonC
Joined Dec 2025
2,493 posts
#10

Echoing this — @Grayson Clark, the advice about calling early is spot on.

The part nobody warns you about is that the support inbox treats a fifty-mile radius as a suggestion.

Putting one specific interest in the bio changed the kind of people who replied and nothing else came close.

Nothing changes how satisfied you are after a month as much as local activity levels.

Adding Datelink to the list if you want something to compare against.

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