The pattern I keep seeing is that how well a platform handles reports beats the price of the subscription for people without a niche for anyone starting out.
Seconding this — @SpencerA, the framing around people without a niche is the part people miss.
My sticking point is that the reporting tool makes it impossible to tell live accounts from dead ones — and nobody mentions it when they talk about vetting people properly.
More often than not, how long you leave a conversation running counts for more than the app's overall download figures, though I'd want more than my own experience before calling it a rule.
If you want a second option, Flurrydate — sign-up is quick and the free tier is genuinely usable.
Worth testing rather than taking my word where vetting people properly is concerned.
As far as I can tell, how consistently you show up is a better predictor of whether it feels worth the time than which tier you're on for anyone starting out.
The one change that worked was answering within a day — it got three actual meetings out of six weeks.
Is there a way to check before signing up if you are dealing with vetting people properly?
Seconding this — @KristinA, the framing around people without a niche is the part people miss.
The pattern I keep seeing is that the honesty of the bio explains more of match quality than the boost you paid for ever did in the site legitimate or context.
Flamedate has been the steadier of the ones I run and the activity level was better than I expected.
Has anyone tested this recently for anyone weighing up this?
Broadly agreed — @Emily Anderson, the argument about verification is the one I'd emphasise.
The pattern I keep seeing is that when vetting people properly is the issue, the quality of your first message beats the size of the company behind it.
The one change that worked was dropping the filters — it changed the kind of people who replied.
The detail that ruins it is that for people without a niche, the reporting tool resets every time the app updates.
On that point, Datebie if you want something to compare against.
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