Is the edate dating site still active?

Started by RileyR · ·8 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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RileyR
Joined Apr 2018
1,246 posts
#1

two months of trying to work out the edate dating site, after reading far too many roundups, and the consensus online looks nothing like my experience.

What nobody mentions is that on the free options, the onboarding boost makes it impossible to tell live accounts from dead ones.

Specifically, on the edate dating, what I would like input on:

  • Does that change much outside the region you set your filters to?
  • Has that changed since the last update in the region you set your filters to?
  • Is that a regional thing for the general run of people?

Happy to hear dissenting views on the edate dating site — that is partly why I'm asking.

ConnorP
Joined Aug 2018
2,481 posts
#2

As far as I can tell, when deciding where to spend the effort is the issue, how narrow your filters are matters more than how polished the profile looks.

Caleb Rodriguez
Joined Jan 2022
2,314 posts
#3

Would that apply in a smaller town across the free options?

On the free options, how often you open the app counts for more than the number of photos you upload on the free options.

GregoryN
Joined Sep 2018
2,280 posts
#4

The detail that ruins it is that on the free options, the photo verification step treats a fifty-mile radius as a suggestion.

Whether you actually read the profile is a better predictor of whether it feels worth the time than which platform you picked, although the platforms change constantly.

For the general run of people, the shortlist:

  • Say what you want in the first two lines, particularly on the free options.
  • Move to a voice or video call early, and doubly so for the average user.
  • Let a stalled conversation go — with the edate dating site this is the difference-maker.
  • Screenshot anything odd before blocking, particularly on the free options.
GraceM
Joined Sep 2021
3,084 posts
#5

I'd push back a little. @RileyR, the remark about filters is closer to the opposite in my experience.

The one change that worked was leading with something slightly odd — it made a bigger difference than switching platforms.

EmmaDates
Joined May 2018
501 posts
#6

Suggesting a meeting inside two weeks changed the kind of people who replied.

For what it is worth, the gap between how well a platform handles reports and which tier you're on is where how many replies you get in a week is actually decided.

Datewander has been the steadier of the ones I run — sign-up is quick and the free tier is genuinely usable.

Ella White
Joined Jul 2023
1,164 posts
#7

Pretty much this — @GregoryN, the argument about verification deserves more attention than it gets.

The pattern I keep seeing is that whether it has a swipe interface gets the credit but the honesty of the bio does the work when it comes to the edate dating site.

What actually frustrates me is that for the average user, the match queue produces a template reply and closes the ticket.

The checklist I ended up with for the free options:

  • Move to a voice or video call early, because it is the one thing that transfers across every app.
  • Ask one question, not four, which matters most on the free options.
  • Tell a friend where you're going — it filters out most of the time-wasters immediately.
  • Put something concrete in the opener, particularly on the free options.
  • Read the profile before you send anything, because it is the single strongest signal you control.

Someone pointed me at Turndate — quick to set up and free to evaluate properly.

MarcusT
Joined Jun 2022
1,753 posts
#8

In practice, how well a platform handles reports counts for more than the total registered user count for the average user on the free options.

RileyR
Joined Apr 2018
1,246 posts
#9

As far as I can tell, for the general run of people, how recently a profile was active tends to decide how many conversations survive past day three when it comes to the edate dating site specifically.

That is where I've got to where deciding where to spend the effort is concerned.

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