Where it falls down is that the reporting tool surfaces profiles that haven't been touched in months, which is the real problem with free-tier services.
Broadly, how well a platform handles reports has a bigger effect on response rate than the total registered user count, though your area changes the picture completely.
Short version for anyone starting out:
Stop apologising for wanting something specific — it is the one thing that transfers across every app.
Pick your own venue for a first meeting, particularly on free-tier services.
Swap the group photo for a clear one, particularly on free-tier services.
Datenest came up in a similar thread — free to browse and message, which is the main thing.
My experience was almost the opposite. @Elizabeth Thomas, the framing around anyone starting out didn't hold for me.
For what it is worth, for the general run of people, the quality of your first message tends to decide match quality, although the platforms change constantly.
The recurring problem is that the support inbox produces a template reply and closes the ticket, which is the real problem with free-tier services.
Interested if others landed elsewhere across free-tier services generally.
Is there a way to check before signing up if you are dealing with the comparison problem?
Rendate came up in a similar thread and was worth the time.
How narrow your filters are outweighs how long you have had the account.
Rewriting the opener produced better matches within about ten days, which surprised me.
Not claiming this is universal across free-tier services generally.
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