roughly a year in, because a friend talked me into it, and the useful part surprised me.
Where it falls down is that on free-tier services, the distance filter collapses once you move outside a major city.
As far as I can tell, for people in the middle of the pack, how quickly you reply tends to decide match quality, though a friend had the reverse experience.
The questions I keep coming back to about top 10 dating apps for 2026? — free dating & apps | datingfly communit:
- Has anyone got numbers rather than impressions in somewhere outside the capitals?
- Has anyone found the opposite across free-tier services?
- Has that changed since the last update once you factor in working out what is actually different?
- Has anyone found the opposite given working out what is actually different?
On free-tier services, shortening the bio by half produced better matches within about ten days.
Happy to hear dissenting views on that side of it — that is partly why I'm asking.