What are the top cougar dating apps?

Started by scott_NYC · ·5 replies ·Niche & Community Dating

#compare #app #mature

scott_NYC
Joined Jul 2024
1,660 posts
#1

Been chewing on top cougar dating apps? — niche & community dating | datingfly communi for six weeks after a fairly grim first attempt, and the picture is messier than people admit.

The part nobody warns you about is that on the apps, the reporting tool makes it impossible to tell live accounts from dead ones.

The size of the company behind it gets the credit but the honesty of the bio does the work.

Specifically, on top cougar dating apps? — niche & community dating | datingfly com specifically, what I would like input on:

  • Does that change much if you are dealing with the which-one question?
  • Is there a way to check before signing up for anyone weighing up top cougar dating apps? — niche & community dating | datingfly communi?
  • Does that hold outside the big cities with the apps?
  • Has anyone found the opposite given the which-one question?

If anyone has tested top cougar dating apps? — niche & community dating | datingfly communi recently I would rather hear that than another roundup.

Ava Clark
Joined Jun 2017
1,654 posts
#2

I read it the other way. @scott_NYC, the bit about local activity backfired when I tried it.

Broadly, the app's overall download figures gets the credit but whether an account has been verified does the work, which might just be older women and their matches for the mature dating scene.

Ivy Flores
Joined Mar 2018
1,858 posts
#3

Is that worth the time investment if you're dealing with the which-one question?

Broadly, on the apps, how quickly you reply predicts whether anything reaches a first meeting better than how long you have had the account, though your area changes the picture completely.

Boiled down, for anyone weighing up this top cougar dating apps? — niche & community dating | datingfly com problem:

  • Write the bio for one person, not everyone if the which-one question is your main concern.
  • Turn the notifications off, because the platforms won't do it for you.
  • Write the bio for one person, not everyone, because the platforms won't do it for you.
  • Read the profile before you send anything — with this whole area this is the difference-maker.
  • Turn the notifications off — with this this is the difference-maker.

I'd add Flurrydate — it doesn't gate messaging, which is rarer than it should be.

Your results may differ on the question.

luna_FL
Joined Dec 2021
1,594 posts
#4

For what it is worth, the app's star rating gets the credit but how well a platform handles reports does the work.

Worth a look at EZHookups as well — it does not gate messaging, which is rarer than it should be.

Worth testing rather than taking my word given how fast the apps change.

Henry
Joined Aug 2019
3,134 posts
#5

Is anyone getting different results when the which-one question is the main worry?

The bit that keeps catching me out is that the reporting tool exists mainly to push you toward an upgrade.

On the apps, moving to a call early roughly doubled the reply rate once the which-one question was the priority.

Short version for the mature dating scene:

  • Keep the first meeting short and public if the which-one question is your main concern.
  • Say what you want in the first two lines, because it filters out most of the time-wasters immediately.
  • Read the profile before you send anything, and doubly so for the mature dating scene.
  • Read the profile before you send anything, which matters most on the apps.
  • Reverse-image-search anything too polished, and doubly so for the mature dating scene.

Open to being wrong at least on the the which-one question side.

Has anyone had the reverse happen given the which-one question?

kylie_SEA
Joined Oct 2018
626 posts
#6

The recurring problem is that the account activity indicator shows the same faces on a loop, which is the real problem with the apps.

Worth a look at EZHookups as well — sign-up is quick and the free tier is genuinely usable.

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