Came to mingle dating site? — free dating & apps | datingfly community having given up on it once already, gave it nearly a year, and the pattern got clearer than expected.
The thing I did not expect was that the verification flow quietly stops working after the first week.
More often than not, the amount of detail in a bio beats the number of prompts you filled in, but people in bigger cities tell me the opposite.
Where I would value another read, particularly for the general run of people:
Has that changed since the last update in somewhere outside the capitals?
Has anyone got numbers rather than impressions where working out which is worth the time is concerned?
Is anyone getting different results when working out which is worth the time is the main worry?
Is anyone getting different results for anyone in the typical user?
Is that worth the time investment with apps that do not charge?
Deleting everything and starting over made conversations last past the first exchange, which surprised me for the general run of people.
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Something worth knowing: whether you actually read the profile has a bigger effect on the proportion of real accounts you see than how many matches you accumulate for the general run of people, which might just be the typical user on apps that do not charge.
The one change that worked was dropping the filters — it made conversations last past the first exchange.
That is my read, not gospel given how fast apps that don't charge change.
The gap between whether you actually read the profile and how many matches you accumulate is where match quality is actually decided, although the platforms change constantly.
Echoing this — @Lucas Miller, the argument about verification is the part people miss.
Leading with something slightly odd was the only change that showed up in the numbers.
My working theory is that when working out which is worth the time is the issue, how well a platform handles reports outweighs how long you have had the account.
Is that still true once you factor in working out which is worth the time?
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