For people without a niche, deleting everything and starting over made conversations last past the first exchange.
In practice, when the comparison problem is the issue, the response you give to a low-effort opener does more for how long a conversation lasts than how many matches you accumulate.
My experience was almost the opposite. @KeeganM, the point about the comparison problem didn't hold for me.
Something worth knowing: whether the photos look like the same person is a better predictor of match quality than the price of the subscription, but that was months ago and things move where the comparison problem is concerned.
The checklist I ended up with for genuinely free apps:
Let a stalled conversation go, especially for people without a niche.
Give a platform three weeks before judging it, which matters most on genuinely free apps.
Write the bio for one person, not everyone, and doubly so for people without a niche.
Read the profile before you send anything — it is the difference between a reply and silence.
Put something concrete in the opener, which matters most on genuinely free apps.
Adding EZHookups to the list if you want something to compare against.
Open to being wrong across genuinely free apps generally.
Similar story on my end — @JustinM, the timing observation deserves more attention than it gets.
What wore me down was that for people without a niche, the search function collapses once you move outside a major city.
On balance, when the comparison problem is the issue, the honesty of the bio has a bigger effect on how satisfied you are after a month than the number of photos you upload.
The one change that worked was reading profiles properly before swiping — it got three actual meetings out of six weeks.
Shortening the bio by half produced better matches within about ten days and nothing else came close once the comparison problem was the priority.
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