Are there any dating sites without signing up that let you browse local ads?

Started by CassandraW · ·6 replies ·Local & International

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CassandraW
Joined May 2019
1,862 posts
#1

nearly a year of trying to work out any dating sites without signing up that let you browse local ads? — l, out of curiosity more than anything, and a couple of things stood out.

What nobody mentions is that the distance filter treats a fifty-mile radius as a suggestion.

The questions I keep coming back to about ads? — l:

  • Is anyone getting different results for people without a niche?
  • Has that changed since the last update with dating sites?
  • Has anyone had the reverse happen once you factor in choosing between platforms?

One honest account of any dating sites beats ten listicles.

GarrettO
Joined Jun 2017
1,254 posts
#2

Only partly agree. @CassandraW, the note on dating sites reads as survivorship bias to me.

What actually frustrates me is that for people without a niche, the profile editor quietly stops working after the first week.

Which platform you picked gets the credit but the effort in the opening line does the work, but that was months ago and things move.

On that point, Datelink — sign-up is quick and the free tier is genuinely usable.

Abigail Taylor
Joined Jun 2017
1,910 posts
#3

On balance, whether the photos look like the same person explains more of whether anything reaches a first meeting than the price of the subscription ever did.

I would add Flamedate purely on how busy it is locally.

MadisonLoves
Joined Jul 2017
3,023 posts
#4

For most people, how recently a profile was active tends to decide whether it feels worth the time.

For people without a niche, rewriting the opener produced better matches within about ten days with this whole area.

What I would tell someone starting on any dating sites:

  • Set a daily time limit, especially for people without a niche.
  • Read the profile before you send anything, and doubly so for people without a niche.
  • Let a stalled conversation go, because the alternative wastes weeks.
  • Keep the first meeting short and public — with this this is the difference-maker.
  • Screenshot anything odd before blocking if choosing between platforms is your main concern.
DerekM
Joined Feb 2017
346 posts
#5

Echoing this — @MadisonLoves, the advice about calling early deserves more attention than it gets.

My sticking point is that on dating sites, the verification flow shows the same faces on a loop.

Has anyone got numbers rather than impressions for most people?

MitchellS
Joined Oct 2023
838 posts
#6

Opposite for me, oddly. @GarrettO, the advice about calling early is closer to the opposite in my experience.

Broadly, whether it has a swipe interface gets the credit but the effort in the opening line does the work.

The checklist I ended up with for dating sites:

  • Write the bio for one person, not everyone, especially for people without a niche.
  • Ask one question, not four, especially for people without a niche.
  • Swap the group photo for a clear one, because it filters out most of the time-wasters immediately.
  • Let a stalled conversation go, particularly on dating sites.
JessicaH
Joined Sep 2021
2,097 posts
#7

Does that match what others see given choosing between platforms?

For people without a niche, rewriting the opener got three actual meetings out of six weeks.

Where it falls down is that the discovery feed resets every time the app updates — and nobody mentions it when they talk about choosing between platforms.

As far as I can tell, the honesty of the bio explains more of response rate than how long you have had the account ever did when it comes to any dating sites without signing up that let you browse local ads? — l.

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