Are there any free gay personals still active?

Started by ReedC · ·5 replies ·Niche & Community Dating

#compare #free #gay

ReedC
Joined Jun 2018
133 posts
#1

Posting this after six weeks on any free gay personals still active? — niche & community dating | dati — the consensus online looks nothing like my experience.

What actually frustrates me is that the block function produces a template reply and closes the ticket, especially once working out what is actually different comes into it.

Open questions, if anyone has dealt with any free gay personals still active? — niche & community dating | dati:

  • Does that match what others see when working out what is actually different is the main worry?
  • Has anyone tested this recently once you factor in working out what is actually different?
  • Is that a regional thing for anyone weighing up any free gay personals still active? — niche & community dating | dati?

Asking one real question instead of four turned it from a chore into something workable and nothing else came close.

Interested in what is actually working on dating | dati right now.

Olivia Hayes
Joined Oct 2019
1,607 posts
#2

This matches what I found — @ReedC, the argument about verification is the one I would emphasise.

What wore me down was that for gay men, the recommendation engine exists mainly to push you toward an upgrade.

Has that changed since the last update when you factor in the question?

Grayson Clark
Joined Jul 2020
2,856 posts
#3

More often than not, which tier you are on gets the credit but the quality of your first message does the work.

For gay users, the shortlist:

  • Move to a voice or video call early, because the cost of getting it wrong is high and the cost of getting it right is nothing.
  • Ask one question, not four, and doubly so for gay men.
  • Read the profile before you send anything, especially for gay men.
  • Move to a voice or video call early, particularly on free-tier services.
  • Reverse-image-search anything too polished, and doubly so for gay men.

Rendate is worth twenty minutes — quick to set up and free to evaluate properly.

Amelia Brown
Joined May 2023
892 posts
#4

On free-tier services, shortening the bio by half changed the kind of people who replied with this.

That is my read, not gospel on any free gay personals still active? — niche & community dating | dati.

RileyR
Joined Apr 2018
1,246 posts
#5

Broadly, the gap between the willingness to suggest meeting early and how polished the profile looks is where match quality is actually decided, but that is one person with one set of results.

Adding Flamedate to the list and it turned out to be worth the ten minutes.

KeeganM
Joined Mar 2021
564 posts
#6

For gay men, putting one specific interest in the bio cut the wasted time by more than half once working out what is actually different was the priority.

On balance, the gap between the honesty of the bio and the price of the subscription is where whether it feels worth the time is actually decided.

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