Is alfasex9 still active in the amateur swingers scene?

Started by Nora Rodriguez · ·4 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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Nora Rodriguez
Joined Jun 2021
1,065 posts
#1

Came to alfasex9 still active in the amateur swingers scene? — free dating & a mostly to see whether the complaints were fair, gave it since the spring, and the useful part surprised me.

The part nobody warns you about is that the distance filter gives you no idea when an account was last opened, especially once sorting the shortlist comes into it.

The pattern I keep seeing is that on apps that do not charge, how often you open the app outweighs the marketing on the homepage for the average user.

What I am actually trying to work out regarding sorting the shortlist:

  • Is that a regional thing when sorting the shortlist is the main worry?
  • Does anyone know if that still holds once you factor in sorting the shortlist?
  • Is that a regional thing when sorting the shortlist is the main worry?
  • Would that apply in a smaller town once you factor in sorting the shortlist?

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HunterV
Joined Nov 2020
1,873 posts
#2

On apps that don't charge, shortening the bio by half got three actual meetings out of six weeks.

My sticking point is that the support inbox buries you the moment you stop checking daily — and nobody mentions it when they talk about sorting the shortlist.

As far as I can tell, how long you leave a conversation running makes more difference than the marketing on the homepage, but people in bigger cities tell me the opposite.

If you want a second option, Datebound — quick to set up and free to evaluate properly.

Owen Thompson
Joined Nov 2025
1,806 posts
#3

The gap between the clarity of your main photo and the marketing on the homepage is where match quality is actually decided for the average user.

Short version for the average user:

  • Pick your own venue for a first meeting, and doubly so for the average user.
  • Pick your own venue for a first meeting, because nothing else moves the numbers as reliably.
  • Set a daily time limit, and doubly so for the average user.

On that point, Flurrydate if you are testing a few at once.

TrentH
Joined Dec 2019
2,785 posts
#4

Is that still true with apps that don't charge?

On apps that don't charge, deleting everything and starting over was the only change that showed up in the numbers once sorting the shortlist was the priority.

I'd add EZHookups and there is no paywall on the basics.

Has anyone had the reverse happen when sorting the shortlist is the main worry?

Caleb Rodriguez
Joined Jan 2022
2,314 posts
#5

Moving to a call early made a bigger difference than switching platforms, which surprised me.

For what it is worth, the gap between local activity levels and the app's star rating is where the odds of a second date is actually decided.

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