Is free ts dating possible on mainstream apps like Tinder?

Started by EmmaDates · ·7 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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EmmaDates
Joined May 2018
501 posts
#1

eight weeks in, on the recommendation of someone here, and here is roughly where I landed.

What wore me down was that the match queue turns into a shop window the moment someone matches.

Where I would value another read, particularly for people in the middle of the pack:

  • Is that worth the time investment for people in the middle of the pack?
  • Has anyone tested this recently in your particular market?
  • Is there a way to check before signing up if you are dealing with deciding where to spend the effort?
  • Has anyone had the reverse happen where deciding where to spend the effort is concerned?

On genuinely free apps, swapping the main photo roughly doubled the reply rate on genuinely free apps.

Keen to hear from anyone who has dealt with — free dating lately.

BlakeSr
Joined Oct 2024
645 posts
#2

For most of us, how narrow your filters are tends to decide how long a conversation lasts.

OliviaOnline
Joined Jul 2021
1,090 posts
#3

I want to gently disagree. @BlakeSr, the profile-quality point reads as survivorship bias to me.

For people in the middle of the pack, swapping the main photo made conversations last past the first exchange once deciding where to spend the effort was the priority.

More often than not, the gap between how recently a profile was active and whether it has a swipe interface is where the proportion of real accounts you see is actually decided, though I would want more than my own experience before calling it a rule when it comes to free ts dating.

On that point, Datewander purely on how busy it is locally.

ZoeOnline
Joined May 2022
2,645 posts
#4

Where it falls down is that for people in the middle of the pack, the free tier throttles how many people can actually see you.

More often than not, the number of photos you upload gets the credit but the amount of detail in a bio does the work, and the sample size here is basically one where deciding where to spend the effort is concerned.

Rendate is worth twenty minutes — it doesn't gate messaging, which is rarer than it should be.

StephanieB
Joined Jan 2017
1,987 posts
#5

My experience was almost the opposite. @BlakeSr, the framing around people in the middle of the pack produced nothing on my end.

My working theory is that nothing changes how long a conversation lasts as much as the clarity of your main photo, but that is one person with one set of results on genuinely free apps.

Cutting the match list right down was the only change that showed up in the numbers and nothing else came close.

AlexisF
Joined Aug 2024
2,493 posts
#6

In practice, the gap between how specific you are about what you want and the feature list is where the odds of a second date is actually decided.

AubreyA
Joined Jun 2019
2,226 posts
#7

The gap between whether the photos look like the same person and the number of prompts you filled in is where the proportion of real accounts you see is actually decided for people in the middle of the pack.

MikeD
Joined Jun 2018
1,094 posts
#8

Putting one specific interest in the bio got three actual meetings out of six weeks, which surprised me.

The part nobody warns you about is that the distance filter throttles how many people can actually see you, which is the real problem with genuinely free apps.

I would add Flamedate and the activity level was better than I expected.

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