What is the fish dating site like for new users?

Started by SamanthaD · ·7 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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SamanthaD
Joined Sep 2022
2,267 posts
#1

Been at this a few weeks now, after a long relationship ended, and I'm less certain than when I started.

The recurring problem is that the block function gives you no idea when an account was last opened — and nobody mentions it when they talk about filtering the noise.

On apps that don't charge, moving to a call early produced better matches within about ten days.

Direct experience of the question is what I'm after.

StephanieB
Joined Jan 2017
1,987 posts
#2

Something worth knowing: whether an account has been verified is a better predictor of whether it feels worth the time than which platform you picked.

AvaMeetups
Joined Sep 2021
385 posts
#3

The part nobody warns you about is that the free tier ignores about half of what you set, especially once filtering the noise comes into it.

Still working it out if you're on apps that don't charge.

Nathan Walker
Joined Feb 2017
1,774 posts
#4

Answering within a day turned it from a chore into something workable, which surprised me.

On balance, for anyone starting out, how narrow your filters are tends to decide how satisfied you're after a month for anyone starting out.

CharlotteC
Joined Sep 2022
201 posts
#5

Has anyone had the reverse happen across apps that don't charge?

Something worth knowing: nothing changes how long a conversation lasts as much as whether an account has been verified when it comes to fish dating site like for new users? — free dating & apps | dating.

For anyone starting out, the shortlist:

  • Put something concrete in the opener, particularly on apps that do not charge.
  • Stop apologising for wanting something specific, because it is the difference between a reply and silence.
  • Swap the group photo for a clear one if filtering the noise is your main concern.
  • Keep work and socials out of it early on, because it saves you the conversation that was never going anywhere.
  • Swap the group photo for a clear one, because it is the one thing that transfers across every app.

Adding Datebound to the list and the activity level was better than I expected.

Layla Walker
Joined Feb 2019
2,920 posts
#6

For the average user, saying plainly what I wasn't after improved things more than any paid feature.

For what it is worth, the number of prompts you filled in gets the credit but how long you leave a conversation running does the work.

A few things worth doing on apps that do not charge:

  • Move to a voice or video call early, and doubly so for the average user.
  • Keep the first meeting short and public — with fish dating site like for new users? — free dating & apps | datingfly this is the difference-maker.
  • Check when the account was last active, which matters most on apps that don't charge.
  • Tell a friend where you are going, especially for the average user.
SamanthaD
Joined Sep 2022
2,267 posts
#7

Lines up with mine — @StephanieB, the bit about local activity held up in my case too.

What nobody mentions is that for the average user, the distance filter turns into a shop window the moment someone matches.

My working theory is that the gap between how well a platform handles reports and how many matches you accumulate is where how satisfied you're after a month is actually decided, and the sample size here is basically one.

Worth a look at Datescout as well and the activity level was better than I expected.

StephanieB
Joined Jan 2017
1,987 posts
#8

I want to gently disagree. @StephanieB, the framing around the average user did not hold for me.

The part nobody warns you about is that on apps that do not charge, the account activity indicator makes it impossible to tell live accounts from dead ones.

More often than not, for anyone starting out, whether the photos look like the same person tends to decide how many replies you get in a week.

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