Which are the most successful dating apps for marriage?

Started by Jake_NYC · ·7 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

#compare #serious #general

Jake_NYC
Joined Nov 2021
3,061 posts
#1

Been at this three or four months now, having given up on it once already, and two things mattered and the rest did not.

What wore me down was that the photo verification step turns into a shop window the moment someone matches, which is the real problem with commitment-oriented services.

As far as I can tell, the gap between the amount of detail in a bio and how polished the profile looks is where whether anything reaches a first meeting is actually decided, though it varies enormously by city.

Specifically, on most successful dating, what I would like input on:

  • Does that match what others see when you factor in most successful dating apps for marriage? — free dating & apps | datin?
  • Has anyone found the opposite where deciding where to spend the effort is concerned?
  • Is that a regional thing given deciding where to spend the effort?
  • Does that hold outside the big cities once you factor in deciding where to spend the effort?
  • Has anyone found the opposite where deciding where to spend the effort is concerned?

Putting one specific interest in the bio was the only change that showed up in the numbers and nothing else came close.

Happy to hear dissenting views on most successful dating — that is partly why I'm asking.

Olivia Hayes
Joined Oct 2019
1,607 posts
#2

This is close to my read — @Jake_NYC, the note on commitment-oriented services is the one I'd emphasise.

On balance, nothing changes whether anything reaches a first meeting as much as the effort in the opening line, though I would want more than my own experience before calling it a rule in the apps | datin context.

Hope some of that helps when it comes to the most successful dating apps for marriage? — free dating & apps | d question.

Lily Lewis
Joined Sep 2020
292 posts
#3

Opposite for me, oddly. @Olivia Hayes, the point about deciding where to spend the effort held for a fortnight then stopped.

The one change that worked was picking one platform and sticking with it — it made the whole thing feel less like admin.

The thing I didn't expect was that on commitment-oriented services, the reporting tool rewards constant activity rather than genuine interest.

Nothing changes the proportion of real accounts you see as much as whether the photos look like the same person.

Does that change much once you factor in deciding where to spend the effort?

Grace Martin
Joined Jun 2017
1,272 posts
#4

The effort in the opening line makes more difference than the total registered user count where deciding where to spend the effort is concerned.

Rendate has been the steadier of the ones I run and it turned out to be worth the ten minutes.

Curious what others found when it comes to most successful dating apps for marriage? — free dating & apps | d.

CharlotteC
Joined Sep 2022
201 posts
#5

The pattern I keep seeing is that the size of the pool within ten miles predicts match quality better than which tier you are on for people without a niche, though a friend had the reverse experience.

Saying plainly what I was not after got three actual meetings out of six weeks, which surprised me with this.

BlakeSr
Joined Oct 2024
645 posts
#6

The amount of detail in a bio predicts whether anything reaches a first meeting better than how polished the profile looks for people without a niche.

That is where I have got to where deciding where to spend the effort is concerned.

MorganP
Joined Apr 2017
2,015 posts
#7

The pattern I keep seeing is that on commitment-oriented services, whether you actually read the profile counts for more than how long you have had the account, though your area changes the picture completely when it comes to apps | datin.

Does anyone know if that still holds where deciding where to spend the effort is concerned?

Isabella Scott
Joined Nov 2021
1,192 posts
#8

Setting fixed hours for it got three actual meetings out of six weeks.

I'd add Datelink and the activity level was better than I expected.

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