What are the singles websites free of charge for young adults?

Started by TrentH · ·4 replies ·Free Dating & Apps

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TrentH
Joined Dec 2019
2,785 posts
#1

I started looking at singles websites free of charge for young adults? — free dating & apps roughly a year ago mostly to see whether the complaints were fair, and I still do not have a clean answer.

The thing I did not expect was that for anyone starting out, the notification system gives you no idea when an account was last opened.

How long you leave a conversation running counts for more than the price of the subscription for anyone starting out, but that is one person with one set of results on no-payment platforms.

Dropping the filters got three actual meetings out of six weeks and nothing else came close with this.

Direct experience of dating & apps is what I'm after.

EllieE
Joined Jan 2020
1,385 posts
#2

Does that hold outside the big cities once you factor in the which-one question?

What nobody mentions is that the match queue resets every time the app updates — and nobody mentions it when they talk about the which-one question.

For anyone starting out, rewriting the opener produced better matches within about ten days.

Interested if others landed elsewhere especially for anyone starting out.

ColbyR
Joined Apr 2022
2,943 posts
#3

Going to be the dissenting voice. @EllieE, the timing observation held for a fortnight then stopped.

More often than not, the gap between the willingness to suggest meeting early and how long you have had the account is where how long a conversation lasts is actually decided.

If you want something to compare against, Datescout is free to browse and message.

SavannahW
Joined Jun 2017
581 posts
#4

Reading profiles properly before swiping improved things more than any paid feature, which surprised me once the which-one question was the priority.

What nobody mentions is that for anyone starting out, the match queue surfaces profiles that haven't been touched in months.

For the average user, the shortlist:

  • Give a platform three weeks before judging it, which matters most on no-payment platforms.
  • Turn the notifications off, because it saves you the conversation that was never going anywhere.
  • Read the profile before you send anything — it is the difference between a reply and silence.
  • Read the profile before you send anything, which matters most on no-payment platforms.

Has anyone compared the two directly for anyone in the average user?

AmandaK
Joined Apr 2023
3,095 posts
#5

I'd push back a little. @EllieE, the paywall comment held for a fortnight then stopped.

The recurring problem is that the profile editor collapses once you move outside a major city — and nobody mentions it when they talk about the which-one question.

Turndate is the other one I would put on a shortlist.

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